cry me a conundrum

hold me in contempt but hold me

don’t look at all my lip balms

there are four coasters and you put the coffee cup on a book

don't look at that either

cousins and coworkers are addicted to getting pregnant

those mountains are older than Saturn's rings and they want to blow them up and hollow them out for cell phone batteries

I hate the push that you can quit addictions by pure willpower because it perpetuates the idea that people who can't have committed a moral failing of some kind. We all may know some people who did quit an addiction cold turkey, and with no aid, you may be one of them. And that's fantastic, but it is not the norm. It is more than okay to need help to quit an addiction. Relapse is also part of the process. Many people relapse several times before they are able to quit for good. Let's have compassion.

Putting the term "Catholic guilt" on a high shelf where fandom can't reach it until everyone learns how to identify characters who are very very clearly coded as Protestant.

you literally do not have to think about your identity all that much