The Hearts of Lonely People

Away

1. Women speaking up when they’re not experiencing pleasure.

2. Stopping sex when it’s not feeling good.

3. Women refusing to fake pleasure for any reason.

4.The eradication of our sexuality as a performance or service.

5. Women’s sexuality becoming an authentic expression that centered on our desires and actual, physical pleasure not just the psycho-emotional pleasure that sometimes comes with being a desired object.

6. Your sex partner taking on some of burden of pregnancy prevention and not leaving it all up to you.

7. Abortion on demand.

8. Free reproductive care everywhere.

9. Free birth control. The development of birth control for women that is pain free and doesn’t have any negative side effects

10. Closing the orgasm gap. Restructuring from scratch ALL sexual scripts and habits until women are as likely to cum from sex as men. The kiss-blow job-penetration-script for hetero women being discarded.

11. Continuing to eradicate any shame or danger around sex for women.

That can only be done with eradicating violence against women and misogyny in society. How can we expect women to embrace their sexual desires when their desires can still endanger them? You’re attracted to someone and you want to go home with him but he might kill you. You’re horny and want to have a good time but the fact that you wanted sex might be used against you later to justify mistreatment, devaluing, sexual assault or stop you from getting a job.

They tell girls “Be a slut, do whatever you want” and forget to mention that society still has severe punishments for “sluts” that nobody is protecting you from it.