YOU WERE USED UP.

so let's get the big things out of the way. do not interact with me if:

you misgender any of the they/them users in utdr

you ship minors and adults, or ship family members (asriel and chara are family)

i would prefer to not receive asks about, discuss, or post:

kris/ralsei

kris/berdly

king spades (especially 'king spades is a good person' stuff)

artwork where kris and frisk are bright yellow (i will sometimes reblog things w the official sprites)

anything abt romantic attraction from players to the teen characters (or really any selfshipping but like. i'm 35.) this one isn't really problematic i just am the last person to go to for it

the deadnames or agab of any of the nb/trans characters (update to this: i see kris as transfem agender. this rule still applies generally, just Especially don't talk about them being transmasc to me)

this also isn't really a dni note but I do strongly appreciate it if asks do contain something i can meaningfully respond to. if you have a headcanon or fanwork or essay or whatever you'd just like me to share, please put it on your own blog and send me a link. i do not like being the "source" for other people's stuff

you'll note if you stick around that my general theory slant is towards kris being the most important character in deltarune and i tend to speculate in that direction. accordingly, i tend to think kris is the primary knight (update: oops), kris is the narrator, and there is no third entity. this isn't really like stopping me from reconsidering (toby has now forced me to), just "what if it's chara" usually won't get much of a reply from me

i take player theory as the default and will post about it pretty regularly

there's a few post-3+4 theories that I feel may or may not be "correct", but that I find useful enough to treat as a baseline to do other things with. if you're wondering what I'm talking about with any of these, here's a handy reference:

the Knight is at least partially Dess, but not wholly; key things have been lost or distorted, and she's split across worlds in meaningful and painful ways. she is not fully coherent or aware.

Carol is trying to fix Dess at any cost. she is part of what pulled a partial Dess out of the dark and is able to direct the knight a little. she's the phone voice.

Kris blames themself for what happened to Dess, and has promised to do anything to help her. Carol has used that to coerce them into taking increasingly self-destructive actions. becoming the cage/vessel was their "willing" choice, if one they increasingly regret

their original soul, possibly manifested as their dark world form, has been deliberately separated from them and frozen/entrapped/suspended in some way. this is why they can't go to the dark world soulless; they'd die lol

i post a fair mix of angst and humor, especially kris-focused angst. i do tag all weird route related stuff with #weird route if that bothers you any! (the tag used to be #snowgrave, so older stuff is under that)

i reserve the right to block, delete asks, not answer asks, etc but will mostly only do so if you like really violate good sense