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I made this project where I asked my followers what makes them happy or cheers them up when they feel sad. I made a list with my own and their tips together, and I’m sure there’s something for everyone, just check them out.

Go outside to get some fresh air

Watch cute cat videos on YouTube

Netflix and chill

Go to the zoo

Draw circles on a paper

Keep your routine (wash your face, get dressed…)

Listen to music

Dance in front of your mirror

Meditate and repeat positive mantras

Light incense and watch the smoke

Drink tea, it calms you down

… Or drink whatever you like

Compliment someone - and yourself

Make some sports

Laugh with friends

Read bad jokes on the internet

Open your windows

Take a nap

Write (a short story, a poem…)

Cuddle or play with pets

Reach out to someone/talk to someone

Step back and self-reflect

Plan a fun activity

Do something spontaneous

Prioritize

Look through old photographs and snap some new ones

Hug someone

Cry

Read a book

Bake or cook something

Focus on what truly matters to you

Daydream

Let some natural sunlight come in

Surround yourself with people you love

Stop being so hard on yourself

Eat chocolate

Eat whatever you like to eat

Take deep breaths

Send a smile to a stranger

Buy yourself something new

Read nice quotes on Tumblr

Get inspired

Get some work done

Be nice to yourself

Make a list of things that make life worth living

Change your clothes

Take a shower

Turn off all social media

Do some yoga

Lie in your bed with eyes closed for 15 minutes

I you have a therapist, talk to him/her

Go through your closet and donate every article of clothing you haven’t worn for a year

Visit family you haven’t seen for a long time

Start a(nother) blog

Go to church

Join an online dating site

Get a manicure

Have a glass of wine

Run a bubble bath and soak

Drink a lot of water

Adopt a fish

Drive to the beach and stick your feet in the sand

Ride a horse

Ride the subway/bus, going nowhere in particular

Read your horoscope

Play an instrument

Visit a museum or an art gallery

Start recycling

Read to someone

Send a message to your best friends and tell them you love them

Stretch

Help someone else

Have sex

Mastuarbate

Plan aweekend getaway

Drive

Dye your hair

Consider it could be worse

Go swimming

Scream

Know it’ll be better tomorrow

Make new playlists (on iTunes, Spotify…)

Buy antistress books to color

Walk barefoot in the grass

Send out a positive message via helium balloon

Learn a new skill like origami

Order concert tickets

Buy a basketball and shoot some hoops

Visit an aquarium

Plan a night under the stars

Watch the sunset/sunrise

Get a group of people together and go mini-golfing

Draw smiley faces on the bottom of your toes and take pictures.

Make a gift for a friend

Draw a self-portrait or doodle positive images.

Buy a CD of an artist you never heard of and listen to it

Go to the theatre or cinema

Create your own lifetime line.

Brush your teeth

Decorate your room

Pray

Buy yourself some flowers

Play with barbies or something you liked a child

Color code your closet

Find out who won the Nobel Prize in every category for the past 5 years

Look up pictures of dinosaurs.

Put some make up on

Ride a bicycle

Study the solar system

Put on body lotion

Shave

Sharpen all of your pencils

Jump on your bed

Stalk a city on Google Earth/Google Maps

Print a map of your city or neighborhood or wherever, and circle all the places where you were once happy.

Decide what color you want to paint your future apartment.

Take a picture of the sky and tape it to your ceiling.

Take Photo Booth photos with your pet

Put new sheets on your bed

Eat a lemon

Curl/straighten your hair

Play videogames

Read old messages

Watch Disney movies

Learn something new

Garden, mow the lawn, pull weeds

Talk to yourself in the mirror and say positive things about yourself

Visit a candy/toy store even if you don’t buy anything

Blow bubbles

Go fishing

Get a new haircut

Sit by a lake, river or ocean

Light candles/lower the lights

Swing

Wear sexy underwear/bra

Clean your home and declutter it

Make a video

Forgive yourself

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Yeah, let’s talk cognitive functions because I feel like a lot of people don’t really understand this. First off, they’re mental processes associated with the MBTI types. And second: your stack is structured the way it is for a reason.

Let’s start with a technical overview of the functions, shall we?

○  ROLE

Perceiving functions - how you take in information.

Ne - Se - how you like engaging in the world and allowing for the intake of information Ni - Si - how you process new information and apply it to your own understanding

Judging functions - how you respond to and act on the information.

Ti - Fi - how you naturally respond to said information and judge it. Te - Fe - how you make decisions based on said information and make your response known.

That’s why you have to have one of each; you can’t have two modes of understanding information and none of making decisions; that’s highly unbalanced and redundant. If you struggle with making decisions, it’s not ‘cause you don’t have Fe/Te; it’s probably just inferior and not developed. That’s why position matters:

○  DOMINANCE

Ne - Se - if dominant, you like engaging in the world and allowing for information more so than you like doing anything with said information including necessarily understanding it or acting on it. Ni - Si - if dominant, you like processing information and understanding it more so than you like being on the lookout for it or acting on it. Ti - Fi - if dominant, you like responding to information yourself more so than you like taking as much in as you can or acting on it. Te - Fe - if dominant, you like making decisions and applying information more so than taking it in, understanding it, or really even responding to it.

This isn’t concrete; for example, Te/Fe isn’t the only function making decisions, for example. Someone in an Se-Te loop will highly incorporate Se into Te to make decisions (probably very impulsive ones). None of the functions truly act on their own. 

○  EACH FUNCTION

Ne - engages in the world and takes in information through ideas and analysis Se - engages in the world and takes in information through attention to tangible things Ni - processes new information through own ideas and applies it to your understanding through analysis Si - processes new information through experience and applies it to your archive of memories for understanding Ti - processes and responds to information through logic and what makes sense Fi - processes and responds to information through emotions and subjectivity Te - makes decisions and acts on information with logic and what holds true Fe - makes decisions and acts on information with emotions and empathy

So as an example, an ESFP has the functions: Se Fi Te Ni ESFPs freely engage in the tangible world to allow for new information. They like to respond to the information on their own account through subjectivity and what’s right and then act based on logic and what holds true. They don’t tend to usually apply said information to themselves or try to understand it.

○  RULES

Now, let’s set a few ground rules beyond that:

The reason why you can’t have two functions of the same letter like Ti and Te is because Te-doms use the outer world to apply information externally to make sense of it. If you already process and make sense of things in your mind, you don’t need to use the outer world to do that. Or if you’ve already acted on said information in the outside world, you don’t need to reflect on it to make sense of it again. That doesn’t work. It can’t be in your nature to do both; that’s just repetitive. That’s why each function is paired with its opposite.

And just because you aren’t emotionless or super emotional doesn’t mean you’re in the middle of the T/F scale like an ESxP. It just means that your middle two functions are probably T and F, and they’re probably close to on the same level, so use them fairly equally. It doesn’t mean you use them both for the same things though because one of them is a mode of responding to information and the other is a mode of making decisions. I don’t care if you put both logic and feelings into decisions (a lot of us do); it doesn’t mean you use both Te and Fe; you just highly incorporate one into the other which is okay.

Your order can’t be of your choosing either because that’s also highly unbalanced. You have a prominent introverted function and a prominent extroverted function (dominant and auxiliary functions); If both of them are about the intake of information (N/S), you’ll never act on it or respond to information. I’m sorry, but that sounds like the result of literal brain damage.

You can be confused about your type and say you’re an INTx; that’s fine. I won’t take offense to what you identify as. But if you wanna actually know your type and understand what the functions are all about, this is it. INTx implies you have all the functions which would be so redundant, you’d go crazy. You can be unsure, and I don’t mind the placeholder, but you can see how, in the theory, it doesn’t make sense to truly be both INTP and INTJ.

ooohhh FUN? That’s my middle name (not really I’m a boring teenager who likes glow in the dark dinosaur stickers and poetry). LETS GET THIS LIST DONE!

1) READ- obviously this had to be in the top five! We infps generally adore reading and we love how books can transport us to magical places, make us fall in love, frustrate us and get us emotionally attached to fictional characters. 

2) Travel- Most of the things that are fun to us, involve exploration in some way or the other and this? This is the real deal- we dream to travel all around the world- Venice, Paris, Africa, Vienna EVERYWHERE! Travelling as they say, is like reading more pages of the book that is the world and it gives us a sense of freedom which we absolutely love!

3) Look through old photographs, trinkets and letters- I have something I call a memory box and it contains strange little things that I’m sentimental about- from the teddy bear candle on my first birthday cake, to the leaf I stepped on when I had a good day! Most infps tend to collect all these little things and sort through them because they have an amazing memory and although that means that some unwanted details may be etched too clearly in our minds, these objects take us to moments in our lives we are able to experience again.

4) Spend time with our loved ones- This might just be being alone with them and not talking or watching a favourite movie together or talking about everything and nothing, but infps are warm, relationship-oriented creatures and although we love being solitary, we also like the company of the few people we allow to be in our hearts!

5) Daydream- Did you seriously think that I would leave this one out? HAHAHAHA not a chance! We love this and as I repeatedly say, we are dreamers and nothing entertains us more than going through our thoughts, making up creative *coughsweirdasfcough* scenarios and taking wonderful little trips in our imaginations!

Who you usually go for: The Prince Charming/Cinderella type. The all-rounded, seemingly perfect one (that you actually barely know). But the minute details that you do know about them, you’ve managed to spin into an entire fairytale in your mind. This fairytale typically lives as long as you don’t try to actually pursue them.

This is the most real thing I’ve seen in a while.

Cha hakyeon- Ch halcyon  

Jung Taekwoon- Jung Taejon 

Lee Hongbin - Lee Hobnobbing  

Han Sanghyuk - Han Sanguinary 

Lee Jaehwan- Lee Janjaweed 

Kim wonshik- Kim Workmanship 

@kangseok_kim: 오늘자 헌MC와 새MC 1,2번 ㅋ 차학연씨말대로 2회만에 많이 늘음 ㅋㅋ 차씨 제스쳐만 빼고 ㅋ 다들 수고했음#Shinee #민호 #redvelvet #예리 #vixx #엔

With the old MC and new MCs 1 and 2 for today ke Cha Hakyeon-ssi said that we improved a lot in the 2nd segment keke except for Cha-ssi’s gestures ke everyone you’ve worked hard #Shinee #Minho #redvelvet #Yeri #vixx #N