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and honestly I think that’s why so many people have the wrong idea of how relationships work. a lot of people are so focused on those checkpoints in life (dating, titles, marriage) that they put little to no thought into the spaces in between.

you shouldn’t find out after fucking somebody that they’ve had an STI before. you shouldn’t find out after meeting their friends that they spent time in jail. you shouldn’t find out after meeting their parents that they were in assisted learning. you shouldn’t find out after getting engaged that they don’t wipe properly.

you should know certain things about the person you’re with besides how much money they make and their favorite places to spend it. you should know at least the basic details about them as a person. you should know whether they had chicken pox growing up. you should know how many siblings they have, you should know the story behind that little scar on their hip. or the reason they put the milk in the bowl before the cereal. or how they learned to whistle.

too many people let their infatuation dictate their relationship. but once that wears off and its time to actually see the person you’re with it should be someone you actually want and not just the image you built up in your head.

stop filling in the little details for yourself.

people are really in the notes talmbout “i wouldn’t date someone who puts the milk in before the cereal” or “I don’t care if my partner had chicken pox”

first off, those were just casual examples that I figured people could grasp without feeling stupid but… just wow.

second, the examples I used weren’t meant to be specific or exact. everybody has their own deal breakers. and when it comes to certain stuff, you don’t know its a deal breaking thing until you actually face it. THAT was the point of this post.

Kendrick Lamar and SZA’s music video for All The Stars in honor of the Black Panther Movie!

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