For Anyone Who Wants to Know Our Story...
My fiancee is actually who introduced me to chastity and pegging. Before him, I wasn’t aware that they existed. I lived (and sort of still do) a sheltered life and havent had a chance to experiment a lot sexually, so I’m still trying to figure myself out. I’m only 20, so there’s plenty of time. Chastefetish introduced chastity a little before we lived together, but he had a roommate and I was unsure how chastity play was done, so I wasn’t really into it. New Year’s two years ago, we stayed at a hotel and tried pegging for the first time. I loved him, so I tried it (quite drunk, I might add). I wasn’t a fan, but I didn’t dislike it either. He could tell that I was still unsure about it and he never pushed and was always patient with me. We are very open and honest with each other and like to share our feelings. So over time, I began to like pegging and I love chastity. Now that we live alone, we have more time for both and we only have to worry about each other, so there’s less uncomfortability when we do decide to play. We still live pretty busy lives and I wish we had more time for pegging and I wish I could find a cage that won’t cut his penis. That’s been a problem with every cage we have bought so far, and the good ones are really expensive. So, I might seem experienced, but I’m not. But I do enjoy what we do.
So if you are thinking about starting a new fantasy with your significant other, there are a few things to remember:
1) Communication is key. You have to be open and honest about what you are comfortable with and so does your partner. You might be nervous, but if your partner loves you, they will be willing to at least listen to your thoughts and consider them.
2) Don’t push. If you are trying something new with your partner and they don’t seem into it, don’t push them just because it’s something you want. Sometimes, they will try something new because they love you are are willing to try. That’s alright. But you have to learn to be patient and take it slow. Some things take some getting used to.
3) If after everything your partner still decides that this new fetish is not for them, that is okay! Now you two know how to properly communicate and can begin to explore other options that could make you both happy.