Kiksthasupastar

It's the most beautiful and strangest compliment. Because you hear it and think, me? Magic? I'm not doing anything special. I'm just being me. I'm just following what feels right. I'm just doing what I know.

But that's exactly it.

It's those things you don't think twice about. Those things that feel as natural as breathing.

It's the actor who moves and inspires people with their work. It's the singer who brings people to tears with their songs. It's the coach who pulls something out of their players they didn't even know was there. It's the artist, the creator, the maker, the dreamer, the visionary.

And beyond that - it's the tiny things you do every single day.

When you make people feel seen and valued. When you show up, afraid and uncertain but still willing to try. When you show kindness in the face of unkindness. When you continually lean into love. Into strength. Into goodness.

You don't think of it as magic because it's just what you do. It's woven into the fabric of your being. For you, there is no other choice.

But that's where it's hidden. In the small things you label as ordinary that other people see as extraordinary.

You don't make them doubt you, you make them doubt love. AND you make them doubt themselves.

People will start to doubt their appearance,

They will start to doubt their bodies,

People will start to compare themselves to others.

People will start to compare themselves to who they were when they met you.

Your infidelity can spark so much insecurity in someone, that they start to question their whole personality.

The person will most likely think it's their own fault even if they had nothing to do with it.

And if you've ever been cheated on, recognize that someone cheating on you, is more a reflection on them than it is on you.

It's crazy that someone has all these flaws and makes all these mistakes but we end up taking all the blame ourselves.

If someone chooses to break your trust, that's not your fault.

Don't doubt yourself, because someone couldn't control themselves.

Don't doubt yourself, because someone lied to you.