kershmabergen

Here’s the post Olga made about Tom Milsom. And another. Third. Hank and John Green talking about Tom. Melissa Anelli’s post about Tom. TomSka talking about this whole situation.  Tom writing on twitter. Alan about Tom and donating to RAINN. In this video, from a year ago, at the 35 minute mark, a guy called Joe who made videos in 2008/9 talks about Tom Milsom acting inappropriately when Joe was 14/15 and Tom was 20.

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MIKE LOMBARDO / MikeLombardoMusic

Hayley G. Hovers post about Mike Lombardo. Morgan’s post about Mike. Hank and John Green posting about Mike. Meg’s post about Mike. Savannah’s post about Mike.

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ALEX DAY / nerimon

First Anonymous person talking about Alex. Second Anonymous person reblogging the first person. Third Anonymous person talking about Alex. Damien coming forward about Alex. Tikken talking about her former relationship with Alex. And here. Lex talking about Alex. and another post. Lindsey talking about Alex. Also here and here. Nephiesworld talking about Alex. Louise talking about Alex. Kerri’s post about Alex and unnamed Canadian YouTuber.  Tove’s post about Alex and unnamed British YouTuber.

Alex Day defending himself. "I don’t know about anyone else but when I read Alex’s post it seemed (as Marina would say) hella manipulative. From what I’ve gathered he knows what to say and when to say it which is how all of this started." (x)

First Anonymous person responding to Alex’s defense-post.  Second Anonymous person responding to Alex’s post: [ONE] - [TWO]  Hank Green talking about Alex Day.

Alex Day realizing he was wrong. Then read this! And this!!

Lindsey responding to Alex’s second post realizing he was wrong.  Carrie writes on twitter. Responds to a post. Tumblr post. Charlie McDonnell about Alex Day.

The Wiki-page about Alex is not updated. Continuing the discussion. 

Updated: Carrie has been seen hanging out with Alex.

(A blog that has reblogged most posts about Alex Day)

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Deathsy taking about Alex, Tom and Ed.

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ED BLANN / eddplant

The first post about Ed by Hannah. Another post about Ed.   Eddplant’s post about “the past 24 hours…”. 

UPDATED: Ed uploaded a new video on the 6th of June 2014, singing a song called “Inhuman Nature”. I am not going to link the video since I DO NOT encourage you to watch it. Don’t show your support for him in anyway.

Updated:  Video: Morgan’s video about Ed returning. (It also has the lyrics in the description if you’re curious of what he’s singing about). Ed deleting a negative comment Hannah made (one of the girls he abused).  Hannah’s comment that was deleted.  Liam’s thoughts on Ed’s video. Lex’s thoughts on Ed returning to YouTube.

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TOM McLEAN / frezned

Frezned (Tom McLean) being accused. 

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JOSH MACEDO / confusedtree

One article about Josh Macedo. And another masterpost about him.

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KELLY MONTOYA / K3LLYRI0T

One post about Kelly Montoya.

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DANNY HOOPER / danmann44

Danny Hooper being accused by Laura. Laura reblogging her post. Second post about Danny by nephiesworld. Another post about Danny by goshpenny.

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ALEX CARPENTER / AlexanderCarpenter

Rosi talking about Alex Carpenter.  Sarah Snitch talking about Alex Carpenter.  Scrabblized’s post about Alex Carpenter. Llouteasdale’s post about Alex. Halliedarling’s post about Alex. Sunny Williams’ post about Alex.  Jenn Hammond’s post about Alex and the Wizard Rock Community. Emma’s post about Alex. Kellelucas’s post about Alex.

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ADAM ROACH / TheGearsKeepTurning

A post about TheGearsKeepTurning by Elizabeth. This post reblogged. Elizabeth’s friend confirming her post. A post about Adam (thegearskeepturning) by Alice. Beccy’s post about Adam. Maria’s post about Adam. Rumlittleskallywag’s post about Adam. Cass’ post about Adam. Another (short but still important) post about Adam by hodor-kingofwesteros.

And here is a masterpost about The GearsKeepTurning with all the links above and some more comments.

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LUKE CONARD / lukeconard

Kristina Horner writing about Luke Conard and Alex Day. Whitney Milam’s post about Alex Carpenter and Luke Conard. Then Rachel Kiley continuing and writing about Luke.

Luke Conard apologizing. But then please read this! Luke realizing his first apology was terrible and attempting to write a new one. And then read this again!

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COREY VIDAL / ApprenticeA

Shannon Antilles writing about Corey Vidal.  Corey saying he’s going to make a video about this. Corey says (again but in a longer post) that he’s going to make a video.

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TRAVIS NEUMEYER / WhatTravisSays

Carson’s post about WhatTravisSays. Carson’s conversation with Travis.(tw incest & pedophilia) Fizzylimon’s post about Travis. This post reblogged. Reyna Villa writes. And here. Emily’s post about Travis.  Nora’s conversation with Travis.

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ALEX ODAM / thealexfrom1994

Alex Odam posting nudes of his ex Hannah.

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GREGORY JACKSON / Onision

A masterpost about him and his former relationships. 

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STEPHEN PURCELL

Updated: Shawn writes about Stephen Purcell.

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Fake post accusing Tyler Oakley. Fake post accusing Dan Howell was deleted.  Fake Post accusing Phil Lester was deleted.

Hank Green about the fake post accusing Tyler Oakley.  Hank Green explaining that the Tyler, Dan and Phil stories were fake.

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Liam Dryden talking about what to do now. Hank Green talking about what has happened. Lucy talking about what’s happened and speaking up. Marueen Johnson wrote a post. Summer in the City addressing safety. 

A Probation Officer that goes into detail about how offenders see their actions and the way they use language. An open letter to YouTube about all of this. (read this)

UPDATED: YouTubeSpeaks, a tumblr demanding discussion by popular YouTubers.

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Victim blaming is wrong.  If you’re a survivor of sexual assault or abuse, you can get help through RAINN, a great organization. International help.

Educate yourself on what CONSENT means. What to do if you suspect your friend is a sexual abuser. 

Video: Lex made a video about what CONSENT means. Video: Hank Green made a video about CONSENT. Video: The Science and Dangers of YouTube Celebrity. Video: TomSka’s Guide to Gatherings. Video: Charlie McDonnell: Sex & Consent. Video: Bryarly Bisop: We Are Edited. Video: Laci Green: Consent 101.

Video: Lidsey: What is Emotional Abuse?

Video: YouTuve Abuse Recovery | Ann McGavin (thegeekyblonde).  Video: Sexual Abuse on YouTube | Pottermoosh.  Video: Tell Someone | abb3rz07. Video: Wrongdoings and Growth in Our Community | Teryn Gray.

Video: Women on YouTube Panel at VidCon 2014

 ”Don’t let anyone else influence your opinions: make an effort to educate yourself on the matter and decide how you feel on your own.” - Lindsey.

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Carrie’s Blog Post

I cannot even explain how accurate this is.

They practically give you medals for starving yourself down by a hundred pounds, but nobody says shit on the 365th consecutive day of eating more than 700 calories.

And that shit? That shit is way harder … not hating yourself, not starving yourself, not hurting yourself, is harder than doing it was, after it became a comfortable habit.

Because you are trying to break the habits that your fear and self-loathing got you into, and doing all these anxiety provoking things — eating, just EATING, becomes this emotionally fraught field of landmines — while experiencing all the anxiety and fear that your harmful behaviors were staving off. It’s so hard.

For everyone in recovery today, whether you made better choices that helped you on that road, or set you back, or merely didn’t lose ground, I am proud of you for doing what you have done to try to get to a better place, and I believe in you. You can do this.