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The following is a guide to help you become more self-confident in your blow job skills. Whether you are male, female, new to blowjobs, or have had your fair share of experiences, I am here to explain some of my personal techniques that never fail. The most important thing to remember: PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT! It’s okay if you gag. It’s okay to make a mistake. It’s okay to be shy or hesitant at first.  The more you practice, the better you get. Always communicate with your partner to get the best experience for both of you. 

The first thing everyone should know about giving head, is how to approach the fact if your partner is circumcised, or uncircumcised. If your partner is circumcised, please skip the next paragraph. 

If your partner is not circumcised, you need to be aware that an uncircumcised penis is extremely sensitive compared to a circumcised one. This means you have to be cautious of when you give your partner any kind of oral sex. You cannot be too rough. Over-stimulation does not feel nice. At all. For some men, it can be very, very discomforting. Always establish a way to communicate when the man is getting too sensitive. A good way to prevent over-stimulation from happening, is by keeping the head of the penis covered by the foreskin as much as possible. To do this, you can use your lips/tongue to gently glide it back up, or you can use your hand. Please make sure you do not touch the head of the penis itself, unless your partner has told you they are okay with it. Many men do not like the sensation of it being touched by a bare hand. 

Now, to giving head!

There are many different techniques you can use. They can be found in books, or on the Internet. Some require a lot of practice, but a lot of them are quite simple.

Disclaimer: The following tips are based on what I personally do. By no means do you have to do exactly the same, nor am I some all-knowing sex diva. But, I am very well aware of how great my blowjob skills are. I can deepthroat almost flawlessly, I can get throat fucked, and I can make literally anyone cum. I have had men tell me they have never cummed from getting a blowjob before, and alas, I made them cum.  

Videos to come in the near future of how I give head.

Get your partner hard, whether it be stimulating them with your hand, or you can jump right in and use your mouth

Keep your jaw loose, relax your neck/throat, make sure you are both comfortable. Find a position you both like. If you have long hair, you may want to tie it back if you find it gets in the way

Make sure you have enough saliva, it is important to have the wetness there

DO NOT USE YOUR TEETH. EVER. Fold your lips over your teeth so they do not touch the penis

They say giving is a blowjob is like licking and sucking a Popsicle, and this is true. This is the easiest way to explain how to suck it

Play around with how hard and fast you are sucking, so switch it up! Have fun. You don’t have to start off going hard and fast right away. Work your way up to it

Use your tongue: lick all around the head. Trace the edges with your tongue. You know under the head, where the foreskin attaches? This area is very sensitive. Lick it lightly, as a tease. Swirl your tongue around the head in a circular motion. If you are playing with the head, stroke the shaft tightly with your hand to give the pleasure a double whammy. Just do not overdo it. This area gets sensitive fast, more so on uncircumcised men . And again, do not touch the bare head of the penis with your hand

You can also use your tongue as you suck along the shaft, I like to glide it along the underside of the penis. Apply pressure as you see fit based on your partner’s reactions

Blowjobs are called blowjobs for a reason, keep the use of hands to a minimum, unless your partner tells you he wants you to use them a lot

If your partner likes it, massage and suck his balls. If you are going to suck his balls, BE GENTLE

Pay attention to how he reacts to what you do. Suck harder, use your tongue more on the areas he seems to enjoy. This varies man to man, and can take time to learn! No worries 

Don’t force yourself all the way down his shaft, and if he is pushing you to go further, it is okay to say no. If you feel you can’t take it, use your hand to grasp him so you know how far you can take him.

Ready to learn how to deep throat?

Good! Deep throating is actually quite easy. It just takes knowing the tricks to it, and practice I suggest you do not eat for at least 30 minutes prior to performing oral sex. If you eat within that time, there is a chance you will gag and throw up. And no one wants that. 

Relax your mouth and throat. If you are tense, you more likely to gag and give up

Find the right angle. Being able to deep throat well is all about the angle. You’ll know it when you find it. You won’t gag once you find it, and you can’t force a penis down at the wrong angle. Its easiest to find it when he is standing up and you are kneeling in front of him

Start to swallow him. Keep your tongue flat, and your teeth away. If you feel you will gag, which the first few tries you probably will, just keep going, you will get past it! (unless you think you will vomit or feel uncomfortable)

It will take practice to get his entire shaft down. Don’t force it all at once. Work your way down, one swallow at a time

Once you feel confident in your ability to deep throat, you can work to throat fucking, but this takes a lot of practice and a lot of control and trust. I do not recommend doing it until you are totally confident in your skills and feel safe with your partner