Hi new anon, but I saw you ask for other times mingi reassured the members and was reminded of how very recently (Bad MV reaction vid, 1:29) mingi told yeosang "you're so handsome. you've always been handsome."
I was a bit whatever about it at the time, like yeah it's cute, but now knowing yeosang seems to be even more concerned about his appearance and weight than before, I find it really....I don't know. It's kind of comforting knowing that someone in yeosang's life may be aware of whatever he's going through and maybe offers reassurance at least that he looks good either way and doesn't need to change, that he's always looked good. It's a small gesture, but I'm grateful to mingi for that regardless, esp since he's someone yeosang seems to admire in a lot of ways.
It does make me sad, though, because the reason I like yeosang so much (w/o him even being my bias) has nothing to do with his looks. tbh I was indifferent to him until I realized how funny, kind, and smart he is and what a talented/skilled dancer and performer he is. I could be wrong, but he used to seem a bit indifferent to compliments about his appearance but lately he really lights up at the same kinds of compliments (his smile at mingi's compliment made me want to cry he's so sweet), which I noticed before and questioned the change, but now I feel like its bc of the diet and he might see the compliments as proof it's "working." I really just want him to be healthy and happy. I hope he doesn't think looks are all he has bc god knows what that company has been telling him.
Sorry this turned into a mini vent. Twitter is depressing and hostile (will probably remove ateez from my tl for a bit), and I don't feel like many people here are really going to talk about it to avoid negativity. I try not to get too concerned with idols' lives, but seeing that fan account on top of all the mistreatment he already deals with really did make me feel sad and helpless. I can only hope things will improve for him.
Omg that's trueeee thank you for reminding me of this little MinSang moment ๐ฅน๐ญ
Mingi is so harsh on himself but always so supportive of the others and always seems to know what they need to hear. Yeosang even said so himself, that lately he's been feeling very close to Mingi because during particularly hard times Mingi comforts him and knows just the right words to say ๐
Yeosang... he is HILARIOUS. I love Mingi's bluntness and dry humor, but Yeosang and Jongho are fighting for #1 place when it comes to funniest member, they're sarcastic, playful, such natural entertainers, I love them!
I would have loved a YouTube show with them two just having free reign to be snarky, like give them a subject/target and watch them eviscerate it ๐ญ๐ญ and the best part is that it wouldn't even come off as mean!
Yeosang has SO MUCH to give ๐ญ He's so talented and sweet and he really deserves more, not only from KQ but from the fandom as well. People on Twitter are already accusing him of "playing the victim" to "get San in trouble" and I'm like????? Forget playing the victim, if I were Yeosang I would get a GUN. Y'all are lucky he's actually a sweetheart, he didn't think for one second that naming San would cause drama because he's an idol and he's used to that ๐ฉ! But now the situation has escalated to the point that I wouldn't be surprised if Ateez caught wind of it.
And I wouldn't be surprised if either he or San did a live soon where they said it was a misunderstanding and San never said that. His biases would believe it and treat YS biases even worse, while the YS biases would see right through the bs and be even more upset by the whole situation.
And the worst part is that KQ could easily mitigate this by giving Yeosang something in terms of schedules, lines, screen time. Really, from what I've seen YS biases aren't asking for much, they're pretty resigned. It would be so easy to do something kind for them in the form of kindness to Yeosang. But KQ can't be bothered.
I haven't got a clue what KQ is doing with him. They're wasting his potential so badly it's almost impressive ๐ I really think they want to push him into the "small and delicate" box, because that would fit his angelic face better. Like, going to the gym is Yeosang's passion (and also why he needs to eat a good amount of food), but in the past KQ has put a stop to that on several occasions, and I'm wondering if it happened this time as well. Then San's words were just the icing on the cake. What else could have Yeosang done? Losing weight seemed like the only acceptable option for this cb.
Which is a... questionable choice? because more than ever this choreo hinges on being muscular and literally popping your chest in the audience's face! This was the cb to bulk up! To play with being sensual in a stereotypically masculine way to contrast with the femininity of the Sopro seducing them, combined with the Latin flavor of the song
(Mingi kind of escaped the stereotype by making it camp and dressing like the girls and dancing with them, but the others seemed to go for a very "fuckboy" vibe in some scenes, especially if you read/understand the lyrics)
Imagine this Yeosang front and center popping his chest:
Instead he was told to lose weight and put in the back where he's barely visible ๐ฅฒ it's so unfair ๐
Whyyyyyy?????????
(never apologize for venting ๐๐ we all need it sometimes! ๐)
First of all, the Minsang duo is so precious and endearing and I love them. We could have, and I hope we will, more chances to see that dynamic as a whole.
I absolutely love Yeosang and it really pisses me off that he doesnโt get many opportunities to shine. If it was something that he himself asked for, to keep his schedules lighter or something, we would absolutely understand. But thereโs been many circumstances where he said he wanted to do more and it was completely ignored??
I also donโt know much about his weight loss and I really hope heโs mentally well, I also didnโt know that something happened between San and Yeosang ๐ญ?
Ah nothing bad happened between them! We were talking about this:
๐ฌ 0ย ย ๐ 3ย ย โค๏ธ 9ย ยทย - "I had never dieted to this extent before" "I think maintaining it would be better" I'm seething with rage ๐น If I eve
And then another anon mentioned Mingi so he became part of the convo as well:
๐ฌ 0ย ย ๐ 2ย ย โค๏ธ 10ย ยทย https://www.tumblr.com/karmacharmeleon18/822234172043247616/i-had-never-dieted-to-this-extent-before-i?source=share mmh
As I told the other anon, at first I didn't even pay attention to San's name being there, because diet talk is so normalized for idols. I was more upset about the fan telling him to keep going after he told her he had never dieted so extremely before ๐ฉ
But Atiny on twitter definitely paid attention to San being mentioned and the reactions have been... divisive to say the least ๐










