"How many men have I heard say they want a smart woman in their lives.
I would encourage you to think it through.
they make decisions for themselves, they have their own desires and they set limits.
You will never be the center of her life because it revolves around herself.
An intelligent woman is not going to allow herself to be manipulated or blackmailed, she does not swallow blame, she assumes responsibilities.
they question, analyze, discuss,
they do not conform, they advance.
These women had life before you and they know they will continue to have it once you are gone.
She is there to warn, not to ask permission.
These women do not look for a leader in their partner to follow,
to a father who solves their life, nor a son to rescue.
They do not want to follow you or mark the way for anyone,
they want to walk by your side.
She knows that life free of violence is a right,
not a luxury or a privilege.
They express anger, sadness,
because they know that fear
it does not make them weak in the same way that anger does not make them "masculine."
Those two emotions and the others, all together, make her human. And that's it!
An intelligent woman is free because she has fought for her freedom.
But she is not a victim, she is a survivor.
because she will know how to escape.
Remember that you have done it before.
The intelligent woman knows that her value does not lie in the appearance of her body
nor in what I do with it.
Think twice before judging her on her age, height, volume or sexual behavior,
because this is emotional violence and she knows it.
So ... before you open your mouth to say you wish
to an "intelligent" woman in your life, ask yourself if you are really cut out to fit hers”
Gabriel Garcia Marquez/Facebook
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