So Ashlyn basically confirmed what I've been saying for more than an year: she's a selfish narcissist who needs to be the center of attention all the time. When that didn't happen for all the reasons we already know, Ashlyn ran off to someone else.
Ali is not an affectionate person.
She knows it. Ashlyn knows it. We all know it.
Ali is super focused on her career.
She knows it. Ashlyn knows it. We all know it.
So what happened? Kids and retirement.
All the affection that Ali previously gave to Ashlyn has been poured onto the kids (as any mother of two infants would do). Plus Ashlyn found herself outside of a world she had been a part of for 20 years.
A world she shared with her wife.
A world Ali was still a part of.
A mature person would have tried to solve the problem, to step forward and take responsibility.
Maybe asking questions. Maybe putting aside the ego for 5 minutes. Maybe having patience.
But not Ashlyn Harris ladies and gentlemen.
The solution that her brilliant and empathetic mind gave birth to was: open marriage. đ
So put yourself in Ali's shoes for a second: you're wrapping up a stellar career, you have two young children, a dying father, and a wife who keeps telling you that she feels special, that she needs sleep, and that if you're not willing to give it to her, she'll suggest an open marriage.
Because the only thing she really cares about is herself. And she's doing it now!
She literally said that in Sophia's place there could have been anyone: she just wanted attention and intimacy, Sophia was there and so...
As I was reading this part I was like, "Do I have to feel sorry for Sophia Bush now?!" đ
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And this is the biggest reason, among many, why their relationship is extremely unhealthy.
I find it disgusting what she has done and said.
I find it disgusting that she never takes responsibility, that she always blames others.
And I find this belief that she is special truly pathetic.
Who the hell do you think you are Ashlyn Harris?!
You were so keen to prove that gay couples are equal to straight ones, that you behaved like the worst husband.
But most of all, you are the worst human being.
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