Living To Inspire

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Welcome to War-Zone London

The sun is out which means your enemy will be out! A perfect opportunity to execute a plan to kill another human being. It is heart breaking to think that instead of thinking about what fun and sociable activities you will be doing in this amazing weather. You are conjuring up a plan to search and destroy a human consequently destroying an entire family.

My heart goes out to all those associated with the attack’s over this bank holiday. As well as to the many other humans in London that are afraid it may be them one day because of the area they live in or who they are affiliated with or who they hang around with or past actions.

The incident of the 17 year old boy near Kennington Park who was purposely gunned down in a drive by has got me contemplating life. An area that my Nanny has lived in for over 20 years. I am oblivious to the cracks between the pictures because I do not live there and only pop in and pop out keeping myself to myself. But, you have to remember that some incidents are not gang related! It could happen to anyone, it could happen to me!

Do I stop visiting my Nanny? Do I stop walking over to Tesco? Do I stop walking to the pharmacy to collect my Nanny’s prescription? Do I stop walking to Dallas to grab myself some fried chicken? Do I stop driving through the area? I fear the unknown.

The daily mail has covered the story amazingly but they have also uncovered the constant struggle the mother of the 17 year old has had. The mother has a duty to protect their child from all evil and to provide an environment that is full of happiness and growth. Knowing that your son has been targeted by a crew from a near by area must have been horrific to live through. Having to live in fear every day your son walks out of your front door not knowing if he will return. Hoping that he lives his day in happiness and safety wherever he goes.

It seemed to me the incident was inevitable especially after he was stabbed in the chest by the gang, moved to Jamaica for over 8 months, returned and the gang are still trying to kill you. The Mother talks about her pain over a 3 year period and that other parents are going through this as well. Another thing to note that there is no mention of the Father - another single parent trying to play the roles of Mum and Dad.

I have one piece of advice and that is to pattern up yourself and let go of London. Leave London and don’t look back on a life full of pain and suffering. As much as London is a beautiful city with amazing cultures, it is also a war zone where humans are growing up with the mentality to survive. Instead of the mentality to be happy, grow and experience.

You are not stuck in a system conformed to the pattern of the Government. Stand tall and take the necessary steps to distant yourself from it all. There are over 8 billion people in the world so there are a billions of people who you can form new friendships with. Family will be by your side through thick and thin so do not believe you have lost them. The only things you will lose is fear, pain and suffering.

Luckily, my family are safe and I hope things remain that way for the foreseeable future.

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The key to success is to start before you declare yourself ready. Start before you mentally tell yourself you cannot start yet! Start before somebody externally tells you that you are not ready! Start before you miss the opportunity then you have to wait for the next opportunity to arise! Start before you have realised the risk you have taken! Start before you shy away because you are afraid of failure!

We forget in this over sensitive world that success is a small picture in a very large world. Success is built through the power of mistakes. Once amistake has been made, we forget that deep down You have been successful. You have learnt a valuable lesson that has enabled you to grow mentally and/or physically.

When do you know you are ready? You will never know if you are ready until you start, so why not start your road to success now if you haven’t already! Compare yourself to a successful human in this world and ask I guarantee you will ask yourself how did they know when to start?

Guess what? They didn’t but they knew every mistake on the right path would lead them to that little painting on the wall called The Key to Success

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Real love is characterized by the development of a love that is unconditional, unchanging, and permanent.

It does not fluctuate because its source within the person whose love should not depend on external circumstances.

Love takes no position and rises above the separation of positionality amongst societies.

It is then possible to be one with another, as there are no longer any barriers.

Love is therefore inclusive.

Love focuses on the goodness of somebody in all of their expressions.

Love is an intense emotion combining physical attraction, possessiveness, control, addiction and eroticism.

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For the last couple of months I have started to say love you on the phone when saying goodbye to my family (Mum, Dad ad Sister).

With all the madness going on this world only god knows how long I will survive in it physically so I am making sure that my family know that I love them eternally.

When my last day comes on Earth I can go to sleep knowing that they knew me but most importantly knew my love for them was unconditional.

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I live a happy life, I know I do and I would like to ask if you do too?

I am okay with what I ultimately can’t do, because there is so much I can do. I understand and to be honest it is upsetting that i’ll never experience these things I cannot do in my one life time. However, I know that God has his own plan for me in his world. I do not know specifically what is planned for me but I hope it is something great. I want to inspire people in a mentally challenged world in whatever shape or form; I want to provide happiness across different platforms of life.

Mumsie always told me to think forward, fail forward and most importantly success comes from moving forward. I have the upmost belief that every up and down in my life enables me to take one step forward.

I have always from young age loved myself, loved the boy I saw in the mirror everyday because without that boy who looked back at, there would be no success. You all need more love, not from others, but from ourselves.

Success has made me happy, I would like to ask if you are happy too?

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An important page where I publicly declare my love for another human being. There is a saying “you don’t know how important they are until you lose them”. But I do I know how important this human is in my life because without her lord knows what lonely road I would be going down.

This last year has been amazing as expected but without the downs we would not be able to grow in every area of our relationship. I am grateful for the life she has given me. I am so busy loving my life living with her I have no time for regret, hate and fear. I have her full support in my hobbies, career and dreams so what else could I ask for?

I have so much of her in my heart and everyday we spend together moves us forward in the right direction. The best kind of people are the ones that come into your life and make you see the sun where you once saw clouds. The people that believe in you so much, you start to believe in you too. The people that love you, for simply being you.

The once in a lifetime kind of people.

And I have found mine.

Happy anniversary my love.

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You don’t break because you are weak but you break because you are strong. You take on so much but you never realise as it is the norm for you.

Try to relax and take a deep breathe because life can almost be flipped on its head when your eyes lose focus. A mistake doesn't define who you are but helps shape human traits that eventually defines you.

If you fail, learn to fail well, learn to fail forward because at the end of the day you were trying to do your upmost best. I watched a video from an inspirational actor who has been through many different challenges display his love for failure. He stated that you need to “fail early, fail often, fail forward”.

Just like love we should embrace failure, we should not have a negative relationship with failure. Failure is a massive part of being successful in any venture you take. Failure is where we learn the most about ourselves and the situation we encountered. What people see is a very successful person but behind the scenes that person has failed timeless times to get it right.

That person has lived every moment on the edge of their seat to ensure they practice in a controlled situation of failure before achieving. I am happy to be a failure because I continuously find areas that I need evolve to be a better human in society.

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Simple, pure, accessible, refreshing and healthy. Those 5 words for me describe my favourite drink Water.

Simple......

I believe that life has always been simple but we have the common tendency to over complicate or over dramatise situations.

Take a look at the situation, rate the situation out of 3 and deal with the situation according to your rating.

Don’t forget to evaluate how you dealt with the situation, so if a similar situation crosses you again you will hopefully deal with it simpler

Pure......

How do you live in purity in an impure world?

Death, Crime, Hate, Cancer, Homelessness, Orphanage, Murder, Bullies, Corruption, Psychological and Physiological disorders, Global Warming and the list can go on and on.

However long this list is you need to understand that the purity in this world outweighs it all.

Nature, Love, Relationships, Seasons, Breathing, The power of religion, Family, Health, Sport, Music, Birthdays, Christmas, Technology, Happiness and many more that you could add onto this list.

Accessible......

I believe that we live in a world that leaves us open to everything and everyone.

It leaves us open to the good and evil that commonly crosses every path we take.

The digital age has created psychological prisons that are consistently shrinking around us. However, we have the power to determine the impact of this digital prison. The only tool you need to survive and thrive is your mind.

Refreshing........

Change is inevitable, but personal growth is a choice. Got to keep yourself fresh in this world otherwise you will conform to a normalised pattern.

You are never where you want to be, but you need to put the work in to get better.

Grow into the version of a human you dreamed of being when you were a kid. Be yourself, not the human that everyone wants you to be. Only you know what type of human you want to be so do not stray away from the evolution of your life.

Healthy......

We live in a health conscious society that is the sole driver for self-worth and acceptance amongst familiar people or strangers.

I am addicted to my physical, social and mental well being. I love sport, health and exercise which is why I am a Physical Education teacher.

I have always believed that if you have a healthy body, you’ll have a healthy mind. We do not stop exercising because we grow old, we grow old because we stop exercising.

Invest in your health.

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