Not every friendship is helpful and worthwhile … and sometime we need to ask ourselves the following:

1. What am I getting from the relationship? Is this person there for me when I need them most? Do they build me up, and bring out the best in me?

2. Is this friendship draining, or is it mainly negative? Do I feel I’m just being used? Are things always about them?

3. Can I be genuine and real – and just myself - with this person? Or are they likely to react if I share my honest thoughts?

4. Do they care about my feelings, my views and my opinions? Or do they treat me like an object, whose feelings never count?

This woman’s name is Da’Vonne Rogers. She’s on a show called Big Brother. She has a little daughter named Kadence and you can help her win $25,000 for her daughter. All you have to do is go here and vote for her 20 times per day until Monday, September 19th. She could really use this money and she deserves to get more love since some viewers stereotype her as a “loud and angry” black woman.