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So Im gonna...!!

This is for all sissygurls, but definitely the new and inexperienced ones. So, here's some opinionated straight talk and things to ponder for all you sissys. Normally Id post things like this on my blog over at the Spaces GurlsInc HQ, but i figured Id put it here for a change... So anyway...

As gurls, every one of you is unique, different, and beautiful. But you all are also MUCH alike. Youve all gone through similar good and bad times. You've struggled. Doubted. Fought with shoe sizing charts. Hidden your gurly side. Struggled with eyeliner. Come out to people and faced rejection. Asked yourself if you were pretty enough. Lost close relationships. Cursed garter clips. And a thousand other things. And, you all share a love of femininity.  With so much in common, why arent we all closer, and communicate more?? Ive done lotsa research, and found trends we should work on!! For instance, on Tumblr, did you know most sissys have less than 10 other sissies in their Inbox!! (I have THOUSANDS!!) Also, most gurls dont have another local sissy bestie. Thats a shame!! Almost a crime!! We need each other!! And, we are sooo much fun!! Trust me, if you havent gone to another gurls house, and with her n maybe others, gotten dressed, had drinks,traded stories and outfits... OMG, if you've never heard:

"Gurrrrrllll... Come here hunny, this dress and these heels will look sooooo good on you!!", LOL, then youre missing out!!

TRUST ME!!! 

So, instead of holding out on a saturday for some "guy" to come use you...how about spending the time with another gurl (or three) instead?? And btw, if its the naughtier events you crave- no problem. That meme about sissys fucking on the first date... Yeah, we know this- its pretty real 😈🤣!! While most gurls claim to be sub/bttm, the majority statistically lean more verse. Which means, if you have an oral fixation and want to practice your skills, no problem- open wide, throat filled, mission accomplished!! Gurls will be happy to let you (many/most of us still dig that!!). And, if you need to get bent over and devastated, thatll work too. Theres plenty of good, capable dick that hides in panties. Sure, some gurls just wont, or are caged and maybe tiny... But hey...TOYS!! Gurls always have plenty!!  And plus, spending time with other sissys helps you build your network... Maybe your new sissy friend knows a guy with the monster you've been craving. BOOM!! The hookup! Also, that network can alert gurls about bad or abusive ppl to avoid. YAY, NIGHTMARE AVOIDED!! Or, maybe new friends know someone who can teach makeup skills and yours still... suck. SHAZAM, beauty coach!! Of course for new and inexperienced sissys, meeting with a "regular guy" straight away is super scary, and lots of bad experiences happen that way. If youre meeting other gurls, hey, they're JUST LIKE YOU!! So theres no weird pressure or degredation, etc... (➡We want to nurture and help new gurls grow, NOT scar them and scare them away!!) You will understand each other!! And most gurls are really kind, so newbs really should meet other gurls as they grow into their new persona. This is where younger gurls can/should turn to older ones for expeience and help, too. Dont be an age snob, theres lots you can learn from them!! (and looking at you, older gurls... You should REALLY be taking new/younger gurls under your wing and helping them!!!) Oh, and these sissyfriends will always be there for you, unlike the guy you met that was only interested in your ass for 3.2 seconds and split. Im just saying, there are so many possibilities left unfound. So many opportunities lost. Our community is a MASSIVE resource for everything you could want or need!! So utilize it!! Sure, other gurls arent for everyone, but just think about it!! At the very least, SUPPLEMENT your inbox and friends list with some other sissys today!! Stop spending your tumblr time exciting the unwashed masses of drooling "men", and connect with someone who will love, understand, and appreciate you!! And yeah, LOL, that will fuck on the first date, 🤣 but only the way you want!!

Hope i didnt irritate too many ppl, i know "regular guys" will probably crucify me, and Im not targeting or picking on them per se, but this is somthing i just had to say... Because I have lived it and believe it!!

Btw, all that ⬆⬆ is the meaning and reason behind GurlsInc and the network id like to build...with your help... So thats it. Love to hear your thoughts...

Have a great gurly day!!!

     -Miss Nikki 💖😘💋