Glow-ry

Christy Turlington, Winona Ryder, and Alexa Demie in Azzedine Alaïa

how do you learn to be kind to yourself? / how do you learn to forgive yourself for existing? / how do you just make peace with the conditions that formed you? / how do you coexist with yourself so easily?

obsessed with all of the women in Iran and Afghanistan who are standing up for themselves knowing their lives are on the line

Karen Mulder 90s 

[The door creaks open, letting in a breeze that smells of burnt pickles. A pie wobbles on the counter, its filling glowing faintly. Milk in the glass is bright purple, fizzing like it’s alive. The steak floats slightly above the plate, pulsing with each drip. Fries curl into spirals, twitching every now and then. Soup ripples, as if something just swam through it. A soda hisses, bubbles rising far too slowly, like syrup. The sandwich breathes softly, its lettuce rustling in the air. Donuts blink in and out of existence, glaze dripping into nowhere. The air hums, thick with tension, as if waiting for something to speak.]

face reveal

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You cannot directly compare the two experiences even a little bit. Male attractiveness is not moralized the way women's attractiveness always has been.