Self-hate circa 1993

If a man says he’s going to hurt himself unless you do what he says, let him. You aren’t responsible for his actions. You are not guilty for what he does to himself, you don’t owe him, you are not his thing to control, you don’t exist to serve him, you are allowed to go on living your life.

well, you could give him the suicide hotline and go.

Dropping this here because abuse isn’t limited to straight people.

goes for anyone of any gender

Hi! Advocate/educator for a domestic violence resource center here! If your partner is threatening to kill themselves, THIS IS VERY DANGEROUS. A large amount of DV homicides are murder-suicides. If your partner is actually suicidal, chances are they will want to take you with them as abuse at its root is all about control. Please seek help immediately.

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