All things D/s...and then some

One of the aspects I dislike most about the FemDomme (mostly ProDomme) cliché is that strap-on sex is depicted as an act of humiliation, degradation and emasculation for the man while the woman gets her kick out of the power and possible pain she’s causing.

As if by being anally penetrated, a man loses any claim of still being a man. As if it turns him gay or “a girl”. As if submissive men needed any more reason to doubt themselves.

I dislike the fact that strap-on sex is presented as means of punishment, debasement. That increasingly bigger, bizarre and grotesquely disproportionate dildos are used to reinforce the woman’s superiority over the sub whose only option, it would seem, is to “learn to cum like a girl” (spoiler: I know indefinitely more men than girls who cum from anal).

Just look at that picture above. How beautiful, how intimate, how respectful despite the role reversal. How she makes love to him. How he rides her cock for his pleasure and hers.

The “bottom” line is: yes, I’ll make you suck “my cock”. I’ll make you worship it. I’ll make you beg for it. I’ll make you gag on it. I’ll make you spread your cheeks for it. I’ll make you ride it. I’ll make you take it. I’ll make you cum from it. I’ll make you call yourself my fuck slut and my cock whore. But I’ll never once make you feel less than.