CandiesNCakes

i'll never understand why people who don't read books want to write books like just plainly it's so confusing it's like if you didn't listen to music at all but wanted to be a musician it doesn't make sense

their eyes are BROWN they are not hazel they are not amber they are BROWN say it with me now

to be honest i think there’s a large number of people who conflate the very real and widespread phenomenon that women tend to be written off as just mothers or love interests in order to diminish their importance in a given story with the fact that a huge reason they’re sent to narrative purgatory in this way is BECAUSE the labels of “mother” and “girlfriend/wife” are systematically devalued and seen as inherently inferior because they’re terms that have been associated with ownership and/or control over women. like the amount of people who’ve told me that a certain female character is uninteresting or badly written because she happened to have a kid or be a man’s girlfriend or sister just to find out she was actually fleshed out very well and carried significant narrative importance frustrates me soo bad. there’s a huge problem with how those roles (specifically “wife” and “mother”) are systematically devalued and yet also perpetuated as the only viable options for women to achieve their societal roles in the patriarchy but acknowledging the devaluation of those labels to begin with is an important discussion in itself.

We see that with many characters , Ginny from the HP series especially !!

Innocently watching the good doctor and suddenly dr fucking melendez dies?????????????????????

you can have multiple most gorgeous looking women giving performance of their lifetime in a movie or show yet people will still come out obsessing & wanting to fuck a white man with the personality of a wet cardboard

Home is where you never have to explain why you are currently naked.

Unless you live with people! Then it's generally awkward unless no one sees you

Home is where everyone who lives there has seen you naked.

Unless you have children! Then it's generally frowned upon

My father passed down the entire collection of generational trauma entirely unprocessed, and he also liked hanging around unclothed at home, and there is zero overlap between those two things. Every single traumatising thing that he ever did, he did while fully clothed.

i was raised on ‘be nice’ but born with ‘fuck around and find out’ energy.

not to be a number nerd on main but 2025 (45^2) will be the only square year most of us ever experience. the last one was 1936 and the next one will be 2116

Kinda obsessed with the idea of running away but making sure everyone notices I’m gone.