Yes I Have Attitude, No I Dont Care

Its been such a good couple days,

We had a fight night recently and it was one of the first fight nights where from start to finish i had a great time! Not that I usually dont but we got into it and made a drinking game out of it, nothing wrong with some friendly competition eh

The wedding planning is going so well, sil and i found a venue in west brome , so beautiful i cant wait to visit in person! Things have been so spectacular between us lately, it’s usually good dont get me wrong but lately idk its just picture perfect ( almost ahah )

My mom and her boyfriend offered to help pay for the wedding which is big, my in laws too 😍 but most special ( maybe not most but ) my brother is paying for our dream honeymoon!! So positano Italy, here we come 😍🥰

I havent been thinking about the doctor stuff lately as much and thats good. ☺️

Luna is growing so much too its her 5th monthaversary 😍❤️

Today was a hard day, my bb went back to night shifts so im back to nights by myself, but if im being honest its been a real hard week despite the work schedules going back to “normal”

Ive been doing real good with my anxiety lately, ive been trying to stay positive and happy, look at the bright side type of thing, for the most part its doing the job but of course there’s gonna be some dips too i have to remember that.

I’ve been starting to do all the planning for my wedding that’ll be on October 23rd,2021 💍 To the absolute love of my life.

Growing up every girl has this picture perfect dream of what her wedding and her life will be like at whatever projected age we give ourselves ( i was “supposed” to be married by 22 🤷🏻‍♀️ oops)

But nobody ever tells u about the nitty gritty,

Like you may not have everything you want , you may not be able to invite everyone you want, you’re plans at age 12 are not realistic for real life wedding, you might not get an engagement party like that boy that went to your highschool, you will have family members who will not show up, there will be drama, it does cost excessively expensive and not everything is a fairytale at the end of the day. But we all knew this right?

About 7 months ago i lost contact with my dad, and without going into excruciating detail, he’s pretty much as gone as it gets and my god is it hitting me now. All the wedding planning and my head keeps going back to; He won’t walk me down the aisle, i wont have a father daughter dance and he wont be able to give me away.

Life is full of uncertainties,but no.. i did not see this in the colorful spectrum of scenarios that could occur in the mind of an anxious adolescent.

My love and i are talking about babies, like really talking about babies. We look at Luna, our puppy and it’s crazy the love someone can have for their dog right, well imagine our first kid. You licture this unimaginable love you have for your kid, you think of what kind of parent you’ll be, what kind of family you’ll raise and where you’ll be in 15 years. I dont know all those answers but holy good god will my man be the best damn father i have ever seen.

We’re talking about godparents, were talking about bridal parties, honeymoons, career plans, and its all good. It’s all good stuff. But im still not at my best mentally and thats ok..

My brother in laws new girlfriend is a real sweetheart, i think ive actually clocked more hours with her than i have my actual sister in law, oh well tho lol. She was telling me that I’m a really good hype-man. She was saying someone could say something as silly as i didnt laugh just there, and i will fkng pump u up, with the wooo and the ouuu, and i sat back and thought that hype-man, yeah that’s pretty legitimate.

But lately people have been telling me who i am alot, basing their judgement off things i unnoticeably do, but I wanna take a second to define myself, i’m a person who will ALWAYS put their others first regardless of the fact over the years in my past it wasn’t always reciprocated, im someone who loves to eat so yeah i have some extra weight on my body and no im not innocent to the fact its unhealthy, im attentive as fuck but i rarely say what I notice for fear of being judged, i have alot of feelings and thoughts and sometimes (alot of the times) i dont vocalize them because its way easier to shutup about it then start a thing, im funny as hell, im not a GQ model but I have some nice features. Im fucking smart and I don’t always get the credit I should but I graduated cegep in business marketing and now im going to be a fully certified stock broker at the age of 24. Not bad at all

I have alot of faults, im naggy, i get tired fast, i have a hard time saying no because i hate to disappoint, im annoying and i need alot of love. But you know what I’ll never do? Walk out on my fucking kids.

Yes im sad. But I’ll be okay. And overall I’d say im pretty fucking proud of who i am and the life i have, even though i get sad sometimes i see alot more growth than darkness and that’s enough for now.

Thank you xx