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So I need to write a character who has had my specific comically bad luck at dating. And I don't mean comically bad as in I only find duds. No, I found great people that we mutually agreed to each other were better as friends in the end and remain so to this day.
No, what I mean is the fact that my first girlfriend was a closeted gay trying to escape her Mormon family. We decided to test dating because she'd never dated anyone other than guys and it went catastrophically bad, and I wanted to see if dating was for me. I was cool with keeping it secret from her family, I've been there. What I was NOT prepared for while we were dating was her brother (who looked like someone tried to make Mario look like a discount Freddy Murcury from shein and failed) asking me out over text. Cue 5 minutes of panic as I interrupt my girlfriend's dnd game to scream and then compose myself enough to reply "I don't think my girlfriend would like that very much." Managing to not out her or hurt his feelings terribly, and he responded kindly then asked if my girlfriend had any friends.
Sir I don't know your sister's friends like that.
Then another girl I dated, also closeted to her family but older than me and who had introduced me to her family and other friends by my preferred name not my government name - this is an important note - who also broke up with me mutually agreeing we were better as friends. Fast forward a few months later, I'm at my first mammogram. I'm nervous AF because my friend just died of breast cancer at 30, and I'm pretending I'm cool calm and collected (Ibmost certainly was not). The nurse helping me gives me a weird look and I'm thinking "Oh no did I get a bad grade on the mammogram?" But she says nothing and leaves the room so I can get dressed again. When she comes back, she looks at my papers for a second and then calls me by my preferred name not my government name and my entire body locks tf UP because WHAT??? Those two worlds do NOT co-mingle!!!! She then informs me... she is my ex's sister.
My ex's sister, who did not know we dated, fondled my boobs before any of my girlfriends ever considered it. I have decided to retire from dating partially because there is zero recovery from that, partially because I just don't think it's for me.
So I need to write a character who has had my specific comically bad luck at dating. And I don't mean comically bad as in I only find duds. No, I found great people that we mutually agreed to each other were better as friends in the end and remain so to this day.
No, what I mean is the fact that my first girlfriend was a closeted gay trying to escape her Mormon family. We decided to test dating because she'd never dated anyone other than guys and it went catastrophically bad, and I wanted to see if dating was for me. I was cool with keeping it secret from her family, I've been there. What I was NOT prepared for while we were dating was her brother (who looked like someone tried to make Mario look like a discount Freddy Murcury from shein and failed) asking me out over text. Cue 5 minutes of panic as I interrupt my girlfriend's dnd game to scream and then compose myself enough to reply "I don't think my girlfriend would like that very much." Managing to not out her or hurt his feelings terribly, and he responded kindly then asked if my girlfriend had any friends.
Sir I don't know your sister's friends like that.
Then another girl I dated, also closeted to her family but older than me and who had introduced me to her family and other friends by my preferred name not my government name - this is an important note - who also broke up with me mutually agreeing we were better as friends. Fast forward a few months later, I'm at my first mammogram. I'm nervous AF because my friend just died of breast cancer at 30, and I'm pretending I'm cool calm and collected (Ibmost certainly was not). The nurse helping me gives me a weird look and I'm thinking "Oh no did I get a bad grade on the mammogram?" But she says nothing and leaves the room so I can get dressed again. When she comes back, she looks at my papers for a second and then calls me by my preferred name not my government name and my entire body locks tf UP because WHAT??? Those two worlds do NOT co-mingle!!!! She then informs me... she is my ex's sister.
My ex's sister, who did not know we dated, fondled my boobs before any of my girlfriends ever considered it. I have decided to retire from dating partially because there is zero recovery from that, partially because I just don't think it's for me.
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Being a pantser and learning about your characters and story as it flows out of your brain and into your manuscript and then having a plot twist unfold right in front of your good seeing eyes is like:
How I imagine it feels like being a plotter:
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Hi everyone, it's time to crack this case.... together. Please feel free to do submissions of questions for this event! Seriously! It's gonna be an entire month of us answering marketing questions and trying to figure out what to do about this conundrum.
TODAY'S QUESTION:
"Should I give my book away for free?" I think for free is the wrong concept entirely. No... If you don't care about making any money, or this being a sustainable passion for you to devote time and energy to, and you only want to reach people, the answer is clearly yes! If you don't want to monetize this, and it's a hobby, then yes, yes, yes! Give it away for free! But if you are interested in doing this as a career, you will need something in exchange for the time, effort and money you poured into this my dear! That is not an unfair thing to ask for in return. Even if that payment is reviews, something should be given in exchange for labor that you wish to be paid for. Otherwise it's slavery, yes? But what do my darlings have to say for this one?
100% agree with this. I have books I sell, I have books I'm going to be posting for free. Sometimes I give people the books I'm selling in exchange for help with something else rather than money because it helps get my name out there so that I can sell more later.
Making money isn't the reason I write books, but it is a perk. I write because I'm an absolute nerd about every aspect of it. And I love sharing that with others. But you can absolutely choose to post your works for free, just remember that you are worth being paid even if it isn't in money. Because that's your time, your effort, and your heart. Cherish it.
Where I work, the items I deliver are in a bag marked with a sticker with 2 letters and several numbers on them. And when the place I pick up from doesn't provide a sticker, we provide one for them. I grab a bunch of them from work at a time so I don't have to keep going back every day, and I just realized that I got the stickers ending with the following:
666
777
888
And I gave the "devil number" to the lady that keeps trying to bless me at work, the lucky 777 to the one person I look forward to seeing every day because she just treats me like a human, and now I have 888, which in some cultures means good fortune/lots of luck/financial stability, and I'm trying to figure out who to give it to.
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I hate I when I get an idea for a novel. Like oh no here starts the slow sad slip n’ slide to dissapointment again.
You ever been 30,000 words and hundreds of research hours into a project when you realize hey wait a minute. I don’t like this. This is bad.
Ok adding to this though that even though it is extremely relatable, this is a KNOWN thing with professional writing. 10k is often referred to as "having a pot boiling" or "having a stew" - it's the point where you often see an idea coming together and it's exciting! But THEN... 30k-50k is the point where that fun has to start coming together. In theatre, it's usually week 3 of a 5 week rehearsal period where you have to stop talking about the play and really get it all up on its feet and cohesive. In art, it's committing to what are going to be the final visible layers of colour and texture, in sculpture the moment where you're truly at the point of no return with carving out the shape.
It usually feels really bad. Because this is the point it becomes real craft. It's so, so difficult to really be able to identify if it's truly not going to be anything or you're just in the hardest part of the process, and really the only way to know is to... write through it. Write it badly. Or, if you really can't, put it in a drawer and come back to it after a few months of breathing space. Remember, you can fix so much in the edit, but you can't fix nothing!
(I say, fully looking at my latest draft of my book and considering throwing it in the bin. But my editor said exactly this to me, so I'm passing it along.)
this is 100% true. I've written 6 complete novels at this point and every single time around the 40k mark I feel lost in the woods. Nothing seems to be working. I feel awful; I can't sleep. I keep going even though I'm convinced I'm going to fail. And then... It's like leaving a tunnel and getting back out in the sunshine. Stuff starts coalescing. Things that weren't working have obvious fixes. I "can write" again, except I was writing the whole time. It just felt hopeless in the moment. It's not. You just gotta get out of the woods.
Ah yes the Slough of Desponds. Professional author with 13 books, and this is normal for me as well. (Checking for tension issues usually helps!)
Lmao I literally wrote a whole blog post abt it once.
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It's the 50K-70K mark for me when things start slowing down and I start struggling, but like honestly for people just starting out in trying to COMPLETE like ONE story or ONE book it gets discouraging to hear "just push through it!!!"
Because without inspiration to continue writing at that point is not just hard, it's like hitting your head against a brick wall and expecting it to budge. It won't. So rather than forcing yourself to limp on what is the literary equivalent of a sprained ankle, try instead to take things from a different angle.
Let it breathe, yes, but not in the drop it completely and leave it alone way. Gather inspiration. It doesn't matter if it's rereading what you've written (NOT editing!!!!) to find things to use in later parts of the story (kind of a Chekov's gun kind of deal you weren't intending to use something but can now, or hell, one you mentioned expecting to use later and completely forgot about - been there!!!) or even taking in media that inspired your project or writing in general.
Give your brain a reset. Remind yourself what made you excited about this project in the first place. Sometimes a fire can burn down to embers, but it can be restoked into a flame again with precision and care. You just have to find what works for you. Go over old notes. Plot what you want to do in a future section and consider what you need to do to get there. I'm a pantser meets plantser kind of writer. I don't outline, I plant ideas and sometimes they grow into more stuff later, or I learn about the story and the characters as I'm writing them. But! I still get ideas for later scenes even if they are just a general vibe rather than anything detailed. So I consider what would have to happen to get to that point or make the vibe happen and sometimes that's enough to get me through the slough. Sometimes it's not.
Sometimes I get writer's block for 3 months because I write myself into a horrible corner and can't figure out how to make it better. Then one day, my brain goes "Why are we trying to make it better? What if we made it even worse instead?" BAM 40K more words vomited onto the page outta fuckin nowhere.
It's different for everyone, but sometimes asking yourself the question "Why is my focus slipping here?" and picking apart why the fire is dying down will get you more information on how to spark it into a roaring flame again. Pester your muse!!!! Think of it like the rubber duck of writing. Talk out loud to it if you must. Pretend you are in an interview about your story and you don't have social anxiety and regale your tale with the excitement of someone uncovering pirate treasure for the first time.
If it gets you writing, then it's working. Sometimes writing is having a fake interview with yourself in the shower about your story and that's okay.
You ever forget that a white girl version is the standard for pronouncing a specific name (despite also being white) and getting thoroughly confused on a company zoom call when your (white) coworker's name is spoken out loud for the first time and you're trying to figure out who TF Janice is? TF you mean Janice? WHERE JANIECE?

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As an aro who has been abused by those who loved me, I want to see more love as horror. Love as suffocation. Love as violence. I don’t want to hear “if they really loved you they wouldn’t have—” as if love is some pure force, some inherent good. Show me love that is evil. Love that is haunting. Love that is poison dressed up as a cure.