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7 Ways To Be Gender-inclusive In Your LanguageÂ
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regarding bandcamp's trans law center donations on friday, any good trans artists you would recommend checking out? thanks love your music!
great question! can we start a thread on this?these are mostly my friends bands, but hereâs some bands & artists that I like that have trans artists in them makinâ music:me/ us  (mal blum or mal blum & the blums) - idk I donât have a favorite song of mine, but hereâs our last albumlittle waist (audreyâs project) - fav song  (I wanna be a) Dyke Wife aye nako - fav songs ânightcrawlerâ or âmuckâ off their last album (âIâve got an arsenal of self-deprecating jokesâ - same, mars. same. and âhuman shieldâ off the one before thatShea Diamond - I donât know Shea Diamond but I wish I did, because this song (I Am Her) rips.  âThereâs a dark cloud in everybodyâs sunlight and I am herâjenna and the pups - fav song âthirstyâ (âhave you ever been in love/heard you have to learn to love yourself first/guess that means Iâve never loved/guess the only feeling Iâve had is thirstâ)paper bee - fav song âthe choice to be heard and not seenâ (mom Iâm so sorry I canât be your girl I am a strange creature of sadness and words) mallrat - fav song - âi donât really wanna tryâ âi donât wanna get out of bed today cuz, i can tell that iâm gonna miss my train and i donât really wanna tryâ Lys Koi - check out this split alyssa did with foster carrotsLoone and Noel'le Longhaul !!!! - everything is great, but check out the split loone did with paper beeI gotta go get a haircut now but I can add more to this later!Â
I just resurfaced from my Tumblr hiatus just to reblog this post, and to add my name to the list! My new album âStepsâ just came out this past Sunday and is on bandcamp as well!
NYC Trans Clothing Swap & LGBTQ+ Concert
Hi friends! Come out and support community organization Down to Help and NY-based musician Will Shishmanian with their concert + clothes swap event at West End Theater on Friday, Feb 10 @ 4-11PM. Hereâs the Facebook link to RSVP and get details! + link to get tickets (free if you are Trans-identified*) Will Shish will be hosting and performing at the event, along with other artists TBA. This is your chance to come swap some clothes, enjoy the music, and meet new folks. Hope to see you there!
Thanks for helping spread the word about this event, Sunny!
If you live in/around NYC and are a trans person whoâs looking to get clothes that match your gender presentation for free, come check out our event on Friday!
The event is open to everyone, and the admission is $10 if you donât identify as trans, but with $1 off the admission price for every article you bring to swap/donate to the event. Any clothing items leftover after the event will be donated to various different trans clothing swaps and individuals (so shoot me a message if thereâs anything youâre in need of!)
There will also be a concert featuring LGBTQ performers starting at 8pm, which you can get tickets for at http://lgbtqconcert.brownpapertickets.com/
Please share to your networks!
THIS EVENT IS BEING POSTPONED TO A LATER DATE!!
We had one of our performers get sick and another dropped out, so rather than âshowcaseâ me and one other performer, weâre moving the event to a later date.Â
Please message me with any questions :)
NYC Trans Clothing Swap & LGBTQ+ Concert
Hi friends! Come out and support community organization Down to Help and NY-based musician Will Shishmanian with their concert + clothes swap event at West End Theater on Friday, Feb 10 @ 4-11PM. Hereâs the Facebook link to RSVP and get details! + link to get tickets (free if you are Trans-identified*) Will Shish will be hosting and performing at the event, along with other artists TBA. This is your chance to come swap some clothes, enjoy the music, and meet new folks. Hope to see you there!
Thanks for helping spread the word about this event, Sunny!
If you live in/around NYC and are a trans person whoâs looking to get clothes that match your gender presentation for free, come check out our event on Friday!
The event is open to everyone, and the admission is $10 if you donât identify as trans, but with $1 off the admission price for every article you bring to swap/donate to the event. Any clothing items leftover after the event will be donated to various different trans clothing swaps and individuals (so shoot me a message if thereâs anything youâre in need of!)
There will also be a concert featuring LGBTQ performers starting at 8pm, which you can get tickets for at http://lgbtqconcert.brownpapertickets.com/
Please share to your networks!
This is why itâs so important for parents to support their trans kids.
This warms my heart. And also breaks my heart. I adore the â¤ď¸ of so many, such damn fine humans parenting their trans kids so well. And I also feel such crushing loss and sadness for the too many that donât get the support and love that is right. This is why we run parents groups. We have to get more on board.

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Sexual Literacy 301: What is Agency and Why Should it Matter to You?
We at QT think there are some pretty important core concepts about sex and sexuality that we just never get to talk about or learn about in most traditional educational settings. So, weâre taking to tumblr to dissect and explore and talk about some things that we think are central to being intentional and thoughtful sexually literate humans.
This totally connects back to sexual literacy, promise: People spend a lot of time figuring out their taste in music, and not just in a ~follow for more soft grunge~ way. Broadly speaking, most people like music, but very few define themselves as simply âmusic listeners.â Friends will tell you they listen to hip-hop or jazz, or exclusively musical soundtracks, or that theyâre into speed metal and Italian operas. This makes total sense. You understand when someone expresses their music tastes that they have cultivated their tastes over time, they have their own personal reasons to be respected, and that, sure, exceptions might sneak in, and things can absolutely depend on their mood anyway. Itâs incredibly easy to get into a deeply nuanced discussion with almost anyone about their music tastes.
So why isnât it the same when we talk about people as sexual beings, as people with sexual ethics, and a sense of agency? Â Developing a sense of sexual agency is central and needs to be talked about a lot more and cultivated intentionally. How does this tie into musical affinities? Agency is having the self-knowledge to know what you want to hear, what you donât want to hear, and having the skills and confidence to communicate that to others â like saying âyeah, Coltrane would be spectacular, Iâm not feeling this Ke$ha vibe right now.â
(How is agency different than consent? Consent is someone saying âMind if I put on some music?â and everyone in the room saying, âyes, go ahead, thatâd be awesome, yes.â Â And agency is having a deep sense of yourself and the music you like and being able to clearly state your own wishes and a sense of what specifically youâd like to hear.)
The distinction between consenting (enthusiastically!) to sex and sexual agency is important. Consent from all parties involved is the bare minimum requirement for engaging in sexual activities â everyone has expressed the desire to move forward in a sexual situation. Consent means checking in a ton. A simple âthis still good for you?â helps establish ongoing consent. Â
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Damn. This was a good one.Â
(desire x self knowledge) + communication + ability = agency
âYou donât have to be patient. People definitely need to learn more about this.â
Hey Will!! I'm planning to get surgery with Dr. Medalie and I'm waiting on a response from his secretary/himself to talk about what procedure I'll be getting. I really want the same procedure that you've gotten, and I'm just scrambling to look for people who have gone through this procedure with him. I was wondering (if you don't mind disclosing of course), what size your chest was before top surgery? Thank you so much!! You're a real inspiration dude
Hey there! My chest was an A before I had top surgery, I hope that helps! Donât hesitate to message if you have any more questions :)Â
What are the important rules you live by? Be kind. Donât hurt other people. Itâs all the sort of Christian ethics stuff I thought was bullshit when I was a kid. No, it turns out itâs not bullshit. Tell the truth, be kind, all that corny stuff.
Birth certificates, driver's licenses, passports â it's complicated, but it doesn't have to be impossible.
The US Dept. of State states that your physician determines âwhat appropriate clinical treatment is according to acceptable medical practices, standards and guidelines.â Surgery is absolutely not required.
Treatment can vary from hormone replacement therapy (HRT), to reassignment surgery, to simply regular therapy sessions with a therapist. You can find treatment methods outlined in the World Professional Association for Trans Health Standards of Care. Details of your specific treatments do not have to be included in your physicianâs letter.
And for New York state, hereâs our document change masterpost!

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In the new book 'Delhi: Communities of Belonging,' photographers Sunil Gupta and Charan Singh explore and celebrate queer culture in India, including the gay men who were forced to get married and have children, yet still cruise in secrecy.
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carrie fisher isnât just princess leia. carrie fisher isnât just an actress we all admire from a famous series of movies made a long time ago in a galaxy far far away. carrie fisher isnât just another name on the list of shitty things 2016 has done to people i admire.
carrie fisher is a woman who struggled with addiction and mental illness and never sugar coated it - she spoke honestly, openly, about every ugly truth, and made me so much less ashamed of the things i struggle with in my daily life.
carrie fisher is a woman who fought back against body shaming and misogyny, against agesim, who looked at critics and said âyes, i am a woman who has aged, and had children, and struggled with depression and addiction and my body has changed, so you can just shut the fuck up and deal with itâ, and it was absolutely beautiful.
carrie fisher is a woman who was placed in the role of âprincessâ but didnât conform to the typical hollywood idea of what a princess should be. sheâs loud, brash, crass, and unapologetic for being so.
sheâs an idol and an inspiration and sheâs a woman who saved my life many times just by being who she was and never shying away from it or feeling the need to say sorry. carrie fisher is so much and more and i cannot begin to stomach the thought of 2016 taking her away from me, from her family, from the rest of the world and those of us who love her so dearly.
i love you, space momma. we all do. keep fighting the good fight.
Thanks to @raltvater of @grandcannons for this pic from our holiday show/coat drive at @shilltav last night! It was such a blast and everyone sounded amazing! Hopefully more photos, videos, and a count of how many coats are in the 3 giant bags in my living room coming soon! âşď¸đ #livemusic #acousticguitar #uprightbass #cajon #astoriamusic #holidaze #uglysweaterparty #acousicprog #friendship (at The Shillelagh Tavern)

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whatâs up, tumblr, Iâm back to reflect on the past 10 years and all that
2006 vs. 2016, currently 4 years and 4 months on testosterone!