Tip Tuesday: Guest Etiquette Series #2: The Dos and Don’ts
We’re back with another Guest Etiquette Tip Tuesday! Today we’re covering just a few ‘Dos and Don’ts’ of being a wedding guest. Being invited to a wedding can be exciting and confusing all in one. “What do I wear? Do I bring my present or mail it? Am I allowed to bring a plus-one?” These are just a few questions we’ve heard through the years, and we’re here to give a few tips and tricks!
Do RSVP on Time- This is an important one! Vendors need a final guest count a few weeks before the wedding which means the bride and groom need to know if you’re coming or not a few weeks before as well. We suggest going ahead and sending your RSVP when you receive the invite. That way you won’t forget!
Do Buy From the Registry- Couples spend lots of time picking out items for their registry. They (usually) pick their registry items because they actually need or want them. So, do the couple a favor and actually buy wedding gifts from their registry.
Do Sign the Guestbook- Be sure to sign the couple’s guest book so they can remember and reflect on their big day and the loved ones that celebrated with them.
Do Dress Appropriately- We’ll be making a separate Tip Tuesday on this subject!
Do Read the Invitation- Not all weddings are kid-friendly, so make sure to read the invitation. If the invite states “The Smith Family” then it’s safe to assume children are allowed. If it’s only addressed to the parents then leave the kiddos at home. Also, check the invite for dress attire! Some invites might say what they prefer you wear.
Don’t Bring a Large Gift- At the end of the night, worrying about where to pack a large gift in a car should be the last thing on the bridal party’s minds. Save them- and you- the hassle by shipping the gift directly to the couple’s home! This isn’t limited to just large gifts either!
Don’t Assume You Can Bring a Date- Read the invite envelope correctly and make sure it states “and guest” before bringing a plus-one. Sometimes a guest’s guest isn’t always in the budget for everyone.
Don’t Get in the Photographer’s Way- There’s nothing worse than a couple getting their wedding photos back and Aunt Sally is leaning in the middle of the aisle with her iPad trying to get a blurry picture at the ceremony. Brides and Grooms pay lots of money for professional photographers to capture their big day. Leave the photo taking to them.
Don’t Over Do It on the Alcohol- Just don’t do it.
Don’t Wear White- This rule is pretty well known, but just in case you haven’t heard it before- don’t wear white to a wedding. Try to stay away from light ivory and cream colors as well. This color is typically reserved for the bride. Avoid being that person that steals the bride’s spotlight on her special day!