baby, i got it bad for you

This is why I don’t like dating. People are so fucking gross, and I don’t know what to do in situations like that. Like, what are you supposed to do? Just sit there and take it? Tell him to fuck off? But I mean most of the guys that are interested in me are just trying to figure out what I look like without the baggy clothes, which is shady as fuck, you feel me? 

I mean, I’ve had my share of terrible dating experiences, so I definitely get where you’re coming from. But, I mean, dating can be fun sometimes. It really depends on what you’re looking for and making that very clear to the other person involved. Of course there’s always gonna be guys who have very different intentions than you might have or who will just overstep your boundaries. In these situations, I think it’s important to remember that you deserve better and to have the guts to say ‘this isn’t it for me’, you know. You definitely shouldn’t take everything, even if that means having to put yourself in a really awkward situation. Yeah, that is shady as fuck. Girl, take care of yourself. Honestly, if I were you, I’d probably show them what my ass looks like in a skin tight while walking away from them.

blimey mate ! are you serious ? that’s terrible ! i can’t say that i ever had a date like — in fact, even my worst dates couldn’t top what you went through. i’m lucky that i was friends with my ex girlfriend before we started formerly dating, and joe had been my best fried and then co-star before we started going out. but you’re completely right. if he doesn’t show you the respect that you deserve, then they aren’t worth your time. y'know at least you have this experience to base your next date on, in case the next one stars off like that one.

I am, wish I wasn’t obviously. Right? Well, that’s a good thing than. It’s always nice to be friends at first for a while. I think it can be very benefitial to the relationship. Most of the time at least. Well, I’m glad it’s working out for you two! I think you make a lovely couple and wish you all the best. How long have you been dating for? Yeah, I’m trying to take away the positive from this experience. It was definitely a reminder to myself that I don’t need to take everyone’s bullshit and need to be more wary of who I let enter my life. Absolutely. Also, at least the story makes for a good icebreaker.

Oh my god! That shit is nasty! I hate when people do that act all interested in you and then just ditch you for the next piece of meat. I am sorry. You are totally worth more then that and I’m sorry people were shitty.  So the person I am currently dating is a very close friend of mine. We spent our first date listing at least twenty or more reasons why we shouldn’t date. Let me tell you that our first date was a fail haha. 

Tell me about it! Like everyone always seems to be playing games these days and I am getting tired of it. Well, thank you. Lovely of you to say that. But it seems things are working out despite all that, right? Well, you’re one of the lucky ones dating your friend, let me tell you. Although I wasn’t that lucky in that department myself, but it is good to somewhat know what your getting yourself into from the get go and therefore perhaps you’re more capable of being moving past obvious issues, because you have that deeper connection with that person already.

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