It was both our second marriage, but he was 27 and I was 29. We started playing around with me teasing him with “other guys” in bed by accident pretty early. Then slowly graduated to Penthouse Letters and Variations. It probably took us 2-3 years to get to role playing and more graphic fantasies. To be real honest, I got really hot in bed, but was pretty cold to the idea of doing it in real life. So, I guess we got closer and closer to the edge for another year or so with more realistic role play and then I met the perfect guy who fit “the black stud” in our fantasies. But I tried it out in secret, so technically I cheated for a about 5-6 weeks before I “confessed.” Which was actually not a great couple of months for us. He took it really hard. But, we worked through it and by doing so it confirmed his cuckold tendencies and my Hotwife tendencies. Both of us fought it though. It was probably another year or so before we tried it together when he surprised me at a hotel with a handsome black stud. It was a great night and his watching was actually very hot. All in all, it probably took us 5-6 years to get to doing it together. Then, it probably took us another 2-3 years of doing it together before we truly “accepted” that this was the sexual lifestyle for us. I think it is that “tension” that also gives it that extra sexual excitement too. Anyway, I’m glossing over a lot, but it was a process that took time. We’ve been doing it now, happily, for over 25 years ... Best of luck !!!
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