Naamloos

“I—I can’t,” Bryce stammered, unable to look at me.

“We don’t have to fuck again, if you’re too sore,” I assured him. “I just want to hold you.”

“I’m sorry,” he apologized. “I can’t do this with you anymore.”

It had been over a year since I had picked up Bryce in a bar near campus. I couldn’t believe my luck when this incredibly hot college boy accompanied me back to my hotel room. At thirty-five, I was almost old enough to be his father—almost. Yet, like me, Bryce seemed to be turned on by our age difference.

The sex that first time was incredible, our chemistry off the charts. We fucked four times before Bryce fell asleep in my arms, my cock going slowly soft inside him. I assumed the encounter to be a one-night stand, something too rare and beautiful to be repeated. Thus, I was somewhat shocked the next morning when Bryce asked when I was coming back to town. I told him it would be another month before I’d need to see my client again, but I found an excuse to be back in another week and every week since then.

Our pattern was always the same. My flight would arrive in the morning. After my meetings, Bryce would meet me at my hotel, a stone’s throw from campus. We would fuck twice, go to dinner, fuck twice more, fall asleep, and then fuck once more in the morning before he headed to class and I caught an Uber back to the airport. Our relationship was a weekly whirlwind, but it was magical—until Bryce said he couldn’t do it anymore.

“I don’t understand,” I replied, rising out of bed to put my arms around him at the window. “Did I do something wrong?”

“No, it’s nothing you did,” Bryce assured me. “I’m—I’m seeing someone—a guy from my biology class. I should have told you. His name is Warren.”

“Wow. That’s—that’s great,” I stammered, taken aback. “Are you and Warren serious?”

“No—not just yet,” Bryce admitted awkwardly.

“Good,” I smiled. “That means we don’t have to stop seeing one another. We never said we had to be exclusive.”

“Warren doesn’t want me with you anymore,” Bryce informed me, pulling away. “He thinks you’re too old for me, and that you’re using me.”

“I’m using you?” I gasped. “You don’t really think—?”

“Warren thinks I’m just a whore to you,” Bryce interrupted. “The dinners—the hotel room. It’s just sex between us.”

“You’re not a whore to me. And it’s not just sex,” I insisted. “I take you to dinner and invite you to my hotel because I like being with you, Bryce. I thought you liked that, too.”

“I do—I mean—I did,” he replied. “I don’t know. It’s just complicated now.”

“I think you should go,” I declared, my tone firm.

“Don’t be mad at me,” Bryce pleaded, reaching for me. “I don’t want it to end like this. Will you fuck me before I leave? One last time?”

“Bryce, I don’t think we should—”

“Please,” he begged, leading me back to the bed. “I want to feel you on top of me just once more. I want to remember you that way.”

Reclining back on the rumpled sheets of the hotel bed, Bryce spread his legs for me. His pink cunt was still wet and puffy from a marathon of fucking the night before. Pushing into Bryce, he winced as I penetrated him for the last time.

“We don’t have to do this,” I offered while holding still inside him, “if you’re too sore—”

“No, I want this. Fuck me,” he pleaded.

Pushing his knees against his chest, I put all my weight upon Bryce. I was hurt that he was ending it with me so abruptly. I was also angry. And I planned to take it out on his ass. If the boy wanted break-up sex, he was going to get it with a vengeance. Raising myself into a plank above him, I began to jackhammer his sloppy hole.

“Yeah—that’s it—fuck me harder,” he begged, rocking his ass while I dominated him. “Fucking use my hole.”

Bryce’s hands went to my ass, pulling me into him. Pushing his knees wider apart, I slid deeper inside him. His eyes rolled back into his head as my big cock plumbed his depths. His sphincter gripped the base of my thick shaft, heightening my pleasure. My balls couldn’t take it anymore. I needed to nut.

“You want my cum?” I asked urgently. “You want me to shoot inside you?”

“God YES,” he replied, wrapping his arms tightly around me. “Breed my fuckin’ hole.”

Instantly, my cock began to throb, flooding his guts with my warm load. My body convulsed uncontrollably, purging me of my seed. Instinctively, I kissed Bryce, my tongue tasting him for the last time. He began to cry.

“I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have been so rough,” I apologized, pulling out of him.

“No—you weren’t too rough,” he insisted, trying to stem the tears flowing down his face. “That’s not why I’m crying.”

“Then—then what is it?” I inquired softly, kissing his cheek, tasting his salty tears.

“I’m crying because I’m in love with you,” he sobbed, pulling me close and burying his face into my chest.

“I’m in love with you, too, Bryce,” I whispered in his ear. “I have been for some time.”

“What?” he asked in disbelief. “I thought you just wanted a fuck bud—something easy.”

“Yeah, that’s what I wanted at first,” I admitted. “But then I started falling for you. The job with my client actually ended five months ago, but I’ve been coming back every week just to see you.”

“I don’t understand,” he replied. “You had an appointment here yesterday. You were late to the hotel because of it. Was that made up?”

“No, that appointment was real,” I admitted. “I was meeting with a realtor. I was looking at a condo near campus.”

“Wait—you’re moving here?” Bryce asked in disbelief.

“Yeah. Well, maybe not now,” I shrugged. “I was gonna ask you to move in with me. I wanted to see if maybe—maybe we could, you know, be together. But I see now that it was stupid.”

“Stupid? Why would you think that?” Bryce demanded.

“Because you’re younger than me,” I answered. “I now realize that you should be with someone your age, like Warren. He’s right—I’m too old for you. Shit, I’m almost old enough to be your father.”

“I like that you’re older,” Bryce stated, pulling me into an embrace. “I feel safe when I’m with you. I feel—loved.”

“You are loved,” I assured him, kissing him deeply, passionately.

“I want you back inside me,” Bryce pleaded, his hand reaching for my cock, guiding it back to his hole. But before I could push back into him, Bryce’s phone buzzed on the bed table.

“Is that Warren?” I asked hesitantly as Bryce checked his phone. “You can go to him—if you’ve made your choice.”

“I think you know my choice,” Bryce whispered in my ear as he opened his legs and took me into him—body and soul.

Slam Fun Easy

Mach Mal an der Spritze ein Schlüsselring aber so groß dass ein Finger durch geht. Wenn die Nadel Sitz kannst du mit Hilfe des Rings leichter Blut ziehen als ohne. Danach kannst du dein Flug setzen ohne dass alles verrutscht.

I decided to create a masterpost that would help you with what you are struggling with. Hopefully any of the links below will help you! Reminder; You’re going to be okay. What you are going through will pass, just remember to breathe. 

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Distractions;

Here are some distractions to help keep your mind occupied so you aren’t too focused on your thoughts. 

-Draw something

-This website translates the time into colours.

-Create your own galaxy.

-Play flowing.

-Make a 3D line travel where ever you like. 

-Listen to music.

-Calm.

-Ocean mood, do nothing for two minutes.

Sleep issues; 

- 8 hour sleep music.

-Rainy mood. 

-Meditation.

-Coping with nightmares.

-How to cope with nightmares, 11 steps.

-Calm

-Foods that can affect your sleeping, both positive and negatively. 

 Uncomfortable with silence; 

-Rainy mood.

-10 hours of rain and thunder.

-3 hours of rain and thunder.

-Human heartbeat.

-Rainforest.

-Sound of rain on a tin roof.

-Autumn wind.

-Rain on a tent

-Traffic in the rain.

-Soft traffic. 

-Fan.

-Train.

-Simply noise.

-My noise.

-Rainy cafe.

Anxiety; 

-How to stop worrying. 

-Tips to manage anxiety and stress.

-The 10 best ever anxiety management techniques. 

-Self-help strategies for anxiety. 

-Helping a friend with anxiety. 

-All about worrying.

-8 myths about anxiety. 

Sad, angry and depressed/depression; 

-“I’m always sad”

-Feeling sad.

-Going through trauma.

-“I’m always angry”.

-Anger management. 

-All about anger.

-National helplines and websites.

-Self-help strategies for depression.

-Dealing with depression at work.

-Dealing with depression at school.

Isolation and loneliness; 

-Pets and mental health.

-All about loneliness. 

-“I feel so alone”

-10 more ideas to help with loneliness. 

-How to deal with loneliness.

 Self-harm;

-Alternatives to self-harm and distraction techniques.

-146 things to do besides self-harm.

-More alternatives to self-harm.

-Self-harm alternatives.

-How to take care of self-harm wounds/injuries.

-Getting rid of scars.  

Addiction; 

-How to help a friend with a drug addiction.

-What is addiction?

-All about alcohol and addiction.

-The facts about drug addiction.

 Eating disorders; 

-Helping a friend with an eating disorder.

-Eating disorder treatments. 

-Support services for eating disorders. 

-Self-help tips with eating disorders.

-Eating disorder recovery. 

-Recovering from an eating disorder. 

-100+ reasons to recover. 

-Understanding and managing eating disorders. 

 Dealing with self-hatred;  

-3 ways to ease self-loathing. 

-How to turn self-hatred into self-compassion.

-Self-hatred resources.

-10 step plan to deal with self-hate. 

 Suicidal; 

-International suicide hotlines (1)  (2)

-Preventing suicide. 

-Reasons to stay alive.

-Dealing with suicidal thoughts and feelings.

-Coping with suicidal ideation.  

 Schizophrenia;

-All about schizophrenia.  

-Helping a person with schizophrenia.  

-Understanding and dealing with schizophrenia.  

-Delusions and hallucinations.  

OCD;

-Managing your OCD at home. 

-Overcoming OCD.

-How to cope with OCD. 

-Strategies for dealing with the anxious moments. 

Borderline personality disorder; 

-Helping someone with BPD. 

-All about personality disorders.

-Treatment for BPD.

Abuse; 

-Healthy relationships VS abusive relationships. 

-Emotional abuse

-Overcoming sexual abuse. 

-Hotlines services. 

-5 ways to escape an abusive relationship. 

-Domestic violence support. 

-Signs of an abusive relationship. 

-What do to if you’re in an abusive relationship. 

-Surviving abuse. 

-What you can do if you’re sexual harassed. 

-Sexual assault support.

-What to do if you’ve been sexually assaulted or abused. 

 Bullying;

-How to stand up against bullying.

-How to protect yourself when it comes to cyber bullying.

-How to help stop people bullying you. 

 Loss and grief; 

-How to cope with a suicide of a loved one.

-Grieving for a stranger. 

-Common reactions to death. 

-Working through grief.

(Other loss and grief)

-Moving away from friends and family. 

-Coping with a breakup.

 Getting help; 

-Seeking help early. 

-All about psychological treatments. 

-Types of help.

-All about age and confidentiality. 

Things you need to remember; 

- Don’t stress about being fixed because you’re not broken.

-Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that you’re proud of yourself, even if you’re not. 

- This is temporary. You won’t always feel like this. 

-You are not alone. 

-You are enough. 

-You are important. 

-You are worth it. 

-You are strong. 

-You are not a failure, 

-Good people exist. 

-Reaching out shows strength. 

-Breathe. 

-Don’t listen to the thoughts that are not helping you. 

-Give yourself credit. 

-Don’t be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones. 

-Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend. 

-Focus on the things you can change. 

-Let go of toxic people. 

-You don’t need to hide, you’re allowed to feel the way you do. 

-Try not to beat yourself up. 

-Something is always happening, you don’t want to miss out on what’s going to happen next. 

-You are not a bother.

-Your existence is more than your appearance. 

-You are smart. 

-You are loved. 

-You are wanted. 

-You are needed. 

-Better days are coming. 

-Just because your past is dark, doesn’t mean your future isn’t bright. 

-You have more potential than you think. 

- Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.

As long as you can stay hard, then you can top - that doesn’t take much instruction. If you want to be the kind of top that bottoms will crave, that they’ll think about for days on end, that will make them cum without even touching themselves, then this guide is for you:

Foreplay:

Take time for foreplay. Bottoming only feels good when you’re relaxed, so take the time to treat him right and get him in the right headspace.

Pay attention to his body language. Test out different ways of pleasing him (different ways to play with his ass, cock, body, etc.). Gauge his reactions, and you’ll learn all his sweet spots. This will be key when you’re actually fucking.

Ask them what they want. Not only will the resulting dirty talk be hot and sexy, but you can find out how to press their buttons. Nobody knows their butt better than they do.

Compliment them! Tell them what gets you turned on about them. Compliment their eyes, their nose, their butt, their cock, whatever you like. 

DO NOT BRAG ABOUT YOUR DICK (or anything else for that matter). There is nothing more annoying than listening to some self-congratulatory loser talk about how great he is and how lucky you are to be bottoming him. This bottom chose to sleep with you, so he knows what’s good about you, so you don’t need to tell him. This goes double if you sound like the best thing about you is your dick - no one cares that much

Figure out some way to loosen him up a little beforehand. The easiest methods are either to finger him or eat him out. 

Very important note on fingering: The prostate is located a few inches deep, towards the front of their body. You should be able to feel it, and he’ll definitely respond when you play with it. Focus on gently rubbing this as you finger him. You don’t want to press it with much force, since it’s very sensitive, but stimulating it lots will make it much, MUCH easier to get them to cum (especially if you’re going for the no-hands orgasm)

Not everyone likes these, so you may have to get a bit more inventive. A massage never fails to relax someone.

Sex:

Start slowly! He may tell you that he can handle anything, but it’ll feel better if you give him a minute to get used to you. Very slowly push your head against his hole, and continue to push inside him slowly and continuously (going smoothly and not stopping is much easier to handle than starting and stopping over and over).

Especially for hung guys: Don’t go balls deep all at once. Save an inch or so for when he’s used to you. It’ll be easier to handle that kind of deep penetration later, and it’s a very pleasant surprise.

Once he’s relaxed enough to take you actually moving inside of him, you can start to speed up, but remember that the sex is not all about your dick moving in his ass. Play with his dick, make out with him, caress him, grab him, talk dirty, do whatever turns you both on. This is when you can really exploit all those sweet spots you learned during foreplay.

Once it’s in, keep it in. If you keep pulling out and going back in, he’ll be way sore in no time. Even if he can handle it, it’ll make the rest of the experience less fun. Only pull out when he asks, or when you want to change positions, and you should do so slowly!

Don’t go over the top. A solid pace is usually better than alternating between fast and slow, but sometimes passionate moments should lead to some harder fucking. 

Don’t try to go harder than you can handle - you’ll end up cumming before you want to

As for how long to hold out, don’t try to make yourself last forever. If you go for too long, he’ll feel less pleasure compared to his pain, and he’ll be much looser, which isn’t great for you. Good sex is about technique, not duration.

Pay attention to their face! It can be hard tell if their moaning is from pain or pleasure, so it’s up to you to tell when they’re really enjoying themselves. Learn what their different facial expressions really mean.

As a general tip, an open mouth usually means that they’re enjoying themselves, whereas a closed mouth or lip-biting typically means that they’re enduring pain.

Change positions a few times. Different positions feel wildly different as a bottom, and those sensations are highly dependent on the shapes of your dick and their ass. Try out a few positions to figure out what makes their toes curl. Avoid constantly changing around so that it doesn’t break the mood.

Make sure to please yourself, too! It’s extremely hot to know that the top is enjoying himself, so do what you like to make it good for you, too. He’ll appreciate (and so will you, of course)