grow up, grow

men like to think that gendered scripts are like equal and opposite, like the gendered scripts in men's only spaces are misogynistic so the gendered scripts in women's only spaces must be anti-men in some parallel way. this is incorrect. the gendered scripts in both segregated spaces are misogynistic. it's misogyny all the way down.

i know i’m getting old bc i feel a need to warn young girls not to do stuff

The capacity for delight is the gift of paying attention

hey sorry I snapped at you, I've just had a really hard day and [remembers focusing on myself is selfish] maybe it's your fault for provoking me?

sharing a cig with my inner child

have you noticed that everything depends on various factors

Noticing my shoes hurt and, because I'm a systemspilled analytical thinker, immediately thinking "Who benefits?"