Too feminine to function/trail of bodies and destruction

They were extremely cute. They had chemistry. Their kiss was so adorable. They were blushy and giggly and a little pervy. Just how I like them.

But they inability to discuss serious shit haunts me. Vicky was SO CLOSE!! The look on Glam's face, the LOOK OF FEELING GODDAMN UNDERSTOOD FOR THE FIRST TIME IN YEARS. All this, just for her to ultimately deflect which in turn made him backtrack instantly.

Allow me to pull my psychology student knowledge ☝🤓 out to get my point across better. According to Sternberg's Triangular Love Theory, for a relationship to be truly thriving there needs to be passion, commitment, and intimacy. With Glamvicky, the passion component is CLEARLY UNDENIABLY there, the commitment component is also there as showcased by their marriage, but they seriously lack the intimacy. And I used to assume they are just a bit dysfunctional like that, with none of them willing to share about their past. It worked perfectly for me, as long as it was mutual. But having Glam not as reluctant to open up as we'd theorized changes that dynamic and not really in a good way? Before I've never took him for one for emotional transparency, but now I got the impression he almost craves it, just doesn't really know how to handle it? Unless, of course, automatically translated youtube subtitles misled me

Anyways, I don't know, I guess deep down I've always been aware this show is not supposed to be that deep, and they WERE soooo adorable, and I WAS giggling and kicking my feet the entire time, but ALSO they had more of a teenage first love kind of vibe than an actual mature relationship that's endgame?

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They were extremely cute. They had chemistry. Their kiss was so adorable. They were blushy and giggly and a little pervy. Just how I like them.

But they inability to discuss serious shit haunts me. Vicky was SO CLOSE!! The look on Glam's face, the LOOK OF FEELING GODDAMN UNDERSTOOD FOR THE FIRST TIME IN YEARS. All this, just for her to ultimately deflect which in turn made him backtrack instantly.

Allow me to pull my psychology student knowledge ☝🤓 out to get my point across better. According to Sternberg's Triangular Love Theory, for a relationship to be truly thriving there needs to be passion, commitment, and intimacy. With Glamvicky, the passion component is CLEARLY UNDENIABLY there, the commitment component is also there as showcased by their marriage, but they seriously lack the intimacy. And I used to assume they are just a bit dysfunctional like that, with none of them willing to share about their past. It worked perfectly for me, as long as it was mutual. But having Glam not as reluctant to open up as we'd theorized changes that dynamic and not really in a good way? Before I've never took him for one for emotional transparency, but now I got the impression he almost craves it, just doesn't really know how to handle it? Unless, of course, automatically translated youtube subtitles misled me

Anyways, I don't know, I guess deep down I've always been aware this show is not supposed to be that deep, and they WERE soooo adorable, and I WAS giggling and kicking my feet the entire time, but ALSO they had more of a teenage first love kind of vibe than an actual mature relationship that's endgame?

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i have soooooo many really specific ones, but here’s a much more general overview of how i feel. i project a lot onto victoria i think because i find her very personally relatable, glam as well but not as much.

i believe that victoria drops her guard in private with glam and lets herself emotionally recharge and receive validation when she needs it. i myself have spent my whole life struggling to connect emotionally with girls and then women, probably because of some undiagnosed thing, and have always presented myself as gender nonconforming. i had a hohawk for many years, as well as having kept my hair very short in a more masculine style, and have only grown it out in the last few years and even now i have a shaggy mullet/sophie thatcher thing going on. i’m also midsize with a lot of tattoos and facial piercings and don’t shave super consistently. having the fortitude to be able to make your outer expression match your inside feelings doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re a confident person, and when you also sometimes pursue relationships with men, as i have, it can be very difficult not to develop insecurities.

i feel that victoria has spent a lot of years learning to let other people’s comments about her body roll off of her but does still sometimes like to hear from her lover that she’s beautiful and still deserving of soft touches. i’m very lucky to be a woman in this world who gets to be who i am with a husband that not only supports my choices but also voices his appreciation for the things about my appearance that others have made me feel lesser for. i feel victoria has that with glam and that their very first pillow talking sessions were him expressing admiration for her physique but still making her feel feminine in the subversive way that is unique to her.

i think glams character is pretty heavily flanderized by the fandom. he’s definitely more of a listener and can be shy but he’s also very protective and not helpless and childlike the way a lot of people depict him. i definitely think he’s autistic and i think he also has some gender stuff going on. i think he’s Glam and not Sebastian in the same way a lot of lesbians or other gnc people will choose nicknames that better represent their gender expression, but different from a deadname versus a chosen name. i think he’s comfortable moving through the world thinking of himself in a nebulous, undefined way. i think victoria is the perfect match for him, allowing him to relax after spending all his formative years being strong and hyper vigilant to protect himself from abuse. i don’t think it’s that he can’t be more assertive, i think it’s that he’s happy that he has the choice. and i think everything about what makes victoria who she is being unconventional has relieved him of a lot of the pressure to fulfill standards of masculinity he was held to as a teen

well well well, looks like i’ve gone viral in the metal family vicky lovers community