iâve heard a lot of people say âdonât reach out to your friends first and see how many people will remain in your life. those are your true friendsâ and i get it. it sucks and itâs tiring constantly being the one to message first, to initiate hang outs but donât take this so literally. some friendships require initiation. i have lost touch with so many people who genuinely cared about me and wanted me in their life because i stopped reaching out. itâs a hard pill to swallow but honestly some people just suck at it and it doesnât mean they donât love and value you. iâve reconnected with some people over the past few months and itâs crazy how genuinely happy they are to see me and how engaged they are in the conversation. i just think sometimes weâre too harsh on each other & too quick to emphasize other peoples flaws and remove them from our lives but then weâll all be alone and whatâs the point of life then!!!!
