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it’s weird that professional letters are supposed to start with “dear.” i don’t even call my mom that
my darling hiring manager. my springtime rose. if hired i will bring a strong work ethic to this position

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Discussions on Netflix's live action atla have made think about how much bite these characters have and I'm specifically thinking about Suki and Sokka
I feel like Suki is so often misrepresented and under appreciated as a character and a match for Sokka
Sokka and Suki are both warriors, both analytical, tactical, they are both leaders, and they've both been put into roles of huge responsibility at young ages
But while Suki has a whole village as back up, Sokka is basically "the man of the house" for a whole village. He's from a sexist culture that doesn't believe women can be warriors (unless they are water benders - making the southern water tribe less sexist than the northern) and he's been in charge of looking after the "women and children" even while he himself was a child
So when he meets Suki, a woman and a child, he immediately assumes the role he's always had, and has to learn when Suki shows him, no, I am just as much as a warrior and leader as you are, and you are just as much as a child as I am
And then her village burns down, and she experiences a trauma similar to what Sokka has, which brings them even closer as characters but, importantly, he had already learned to see her as an equal before then
Suki is definitely the most well-rounded of the characters- she doesn't have Sokka's arrogance, Aang's naivety, Katara's anger, Toph immaturity - she is what happens when a child is given consistent love and support (in no small part to luck since the earth Kingdom became a target later than the water tribes, and had better defenses)
But she's still her own person with her own opinions and it's because she is so sure of herself that she is so interesting with Sokka!
And their relationship is actually really awesome!
And I don't know why I'm feeling so passionate about a character who wasn't even my favourite growing up, or even rewatching, I like her, but she's always come after other characters but I dunno, she's important to me right now and I think she deserves better both from official sources and fandom ones
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“Then he (Caesar) came into Alexandria after Pompey was slain, and detested Theodotus that presented him Pompey’s head, and turned his head aside because he would not see it. He took his seal, and beholding it, wept.” —Plutarch
A little conversation between Caesar and Pompey. They make me so ill.
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just saw a chair so photogenic I had to reevaluate my feelings towards plastic furniture
do you see this. beyond ridiculous
what are our thoughts
I understand your feelings for the chair robin crabussy
unpost this right now you strange strange man
I hired a wizard to cast png on it. effervescent
Ive said this before but swear the biggest skill to learn as an adult is how to resist high-pressure sales tactics. You do NOT have to answer questions with anything other than "Sorry I'm not interested." No matter how nice they are or no matter how many follow up questions they ask or even how agitated they get when you stand your ground. Just keep saying I'm not interested. Don't answer their questions. Don't give them an opening to try to push back on your reasons. Be a fucking brick wall of I'm not interested.
When we bought our car, I told Sean to let me handle it. I walked in and said "We have X for a down payment and cannot pay more than Y in monthly payments." My Y number had some leeway, but I didn't mention that.
First thing the sales guy did after I laid down the rules was turn to Sean and go, "What's your number?" And Sean said. "Oh, no, you negotiate with Gayle."
So, strike one for the sales guy. Could not divide and conquer us by implying THE MAN would not surprised at what I laid down.
Sales guy then had to confer with his manager and left us at his desk for several minutes. I have a vague recollection (this was 16 years ago) of Sean and I amusing ourselves doing bits about the other people there to look at cars. I am sure we did not give off the stressed or nervous energy they were hoping for.
Guy comes back. His first offer is fifty dollars a month more than I told him we could pay. I looked at him and said "I gave you our upper limit."
"Well, but what's another 50 bucks a month?"
"Something I can't afford."
He didn't know what to do with my open and unashamed admittal that I had a budget because my money was finite.
He went back to talk to the manager again.
It took two more rounds of "I told you what I can afford" before he finally came back 20 bucks under what I'd stated as my max.
The trick to resisting high-stress sales tactics is doing the math at home, knowing exactly what you can afford, and then walking into the room and stating that number minus 15%. Then refusing to budge from that number. Never, ever, meet then where they want. Always meet them where you want. Because at the end of the day, you can walk away and go somewhere else and say "I told the people at Z what my terms were, and they refused to work with me. Here are my terms. Meet them, and you make a sale today."
I have been a salesperson. I tried very hard to make a living selling life insurance. I read all the books and failed many, many more times than I succeeded. In the end, I went into education, where the sales pitch is much more agreeable (do your homework and I'll give you a better grade).
Lemme tell you that sales people are like the fae folk in the old tales.
They are beholden to the magic number 3. Refuse a sales pitch three times and they are trained to give up. They are trained in many ways to "redirect a refusal", but three refusals means it's time for them to give up.
They cannot enter your home without your permission. But once given in any form, permission is tough to claw back.
They truly fear a failed deal. Sale folk feed on the magic of forging contracts. If they cannot meet their quota, they will starve.
Their deals are never symmetrical. Somehow, it's always weighted in their favor, usually in inscrutable ways.
Lemme tell you that
sales people are like the fae
folk in the old tales.
Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.
the idea that predators and abusers are an ontological category of person, rather than everyone having the capacity to be predatory and abusive, leads to people having no regard for boundaries because they think that predation only comes from evil people ™
be proud of ‘small’ achievements that are big for you as a disabled person. share them with trusted people, share them online, write them in your journal or your notes app. forge a space for yourself. don’t shrug your successes off just bc they don’t look like much to abled people.
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So the other day I realized that if you met a dinosaur who could magically understand language and what words meant, the words we use for that who class of creature would probably sound offensive.
"Terrible lizard"? Well lets just call a human an "awful monkey"! (but no seriously, we call ourselves "wise men" as a species and that is profoundly weird title)
We labeled an entire class of dinosaur as "thieves"!
Fast Thief
Egg Thief (so called because she was found lying on eggs WHICH TURNED OUT TO BE HER OWN! We named a whole species of dinosaurs by accusing this woman of STEALING HER OWN BABIES!)
And lets not even get into "King of the Tyrant Lizards"! The gender of it all, AND calling all of them tyrants! They could be communists! Really, really loud communists.
"FROM EACH LIZARD ACCORDING TO HIS ABILITY, TO EACH LIZARD ACCORDING TO HIS NEEDS!"
Anyway these thoughts brought to you by trying to imagine "what if high fantasy but everyone is a dinosaur?" and realizing how weird our language around them is.
a loooooot a lot a lot a lot of "free food resources for poor people" are literally just scams. some of them are not scams on purpose but have the ultimate end result of wasting the time and energy of poor people and then end up being an app that shows you google map results for "food bank" after they take your user data. a lot of the food or financial resources lists that circulate on tumblr are just lists of these scam/timewasting destinations put together by people who genuinely and sincerely want to help, have googled up a bunch of results and compiled them, but of course have not personally spent the ten hours it would take to test and see if any of them actually function as advertised.
sometimes the resource in question functions well in one city but has zero to offer anyone in any other location, for whatever reason, and very very often, when you DO find a real organization or lead or opportunity, they will have incredibly limited hours of operation, are not taking new clients and wont tell you when they are taking new clients, and/or have other means-testing that is simply infeasible to complete. i think on average i have to spend 1-10 hours on this timewasting shit to find one good lead for any sort of actual material result, and i am living in a DEEP blue liberal democrat metropolitan area.
we should all keep this in mind when we see fundraising posts on this website for people who are asking for food, medicine, or transportation money. the kneejerk response is to wonder why they simply havent gone to the foodbank. well, as a regular foodbank-goer who lives within walking distance of a food bank, let me tell you. it takes days to recover from a single trip there, and days to prepare for the next trip, due to all of the above.
if you personally want to post a list of these resources, it behooves you to note for each one in you list whether you have personally used the resource or not, WHEN you did so, WHAT the result was, and WHERE you are located. if you cant vouch for it, go ahead and post the lead anyway, but say so. try to help people triage their list of leads
everyone remembers the movie Groundhog Day for the time loop aspect but I think a thoroughly underrated bit of genius was making the main character a weatherman. of course he hates groundhog day. imagine your profession is outsourced to a rodent, and that rodent gets far more media attention on his special little day than you and your broadcasts ever could
this video deserves at least three views per viewer, because there is no following both the belly dance and the added text at the same time while still giving either one the attention it needs for full appreciation, but watching only one or the other will miss more than half of the artistic intentions here
Transcription:
I have a BMI of 35. I am the cutoff for most of medicine. My size or larger, we can't access:
Fertility treatment
Gender affirming surgeries
Most surgeries, in fact
bc we can't donate our bodies to science and drs don't study on larger bodies. Medications aren't made for us bc we're often excluded from scientific studies. We're systematically excluded and then blamed for poorer outcomes.
I don't care whether you 'like' looking at me or bodies like mine; we deserve equal access to healthcare [all caps].
End of transcription.
Saw someone in the comments say this dancer uses he/him pronouns, saw another tag use they/them. I don't use Instagram but looking up the tiktok handle I found the dance studio website. Looking around on that, Arielle here is one of the instructors and on his about page, states that she uses both he and she pronouns. He mostly studies Egyptian dance specifically.

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Redoing Twilight again because I hated how stiff and regal and lifeless the old one looked. She would be more awkward and curious + Spike too.
ok i’ve been curious about something. can you name a character who is, all three at once,
1. canonically female (no variation)
2. canonically the protagonist of her story (if it’s an ensemble cast you have to say you can legitimately see her as The main character)
3. your personal #1 favorite character in that story (ties are acceptable)
?
yes
no
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