A lot of drama is happening right now in the Exo Fandom, I am too an Exo stan. I have no problems in any one of the members dating, cause loving someone is not a crime, but yes it does hurt of course but the pain you will feel will go away eventually (guys comfort food and sleep works to move on hehe) don't think too much about if you loved your bias too much, remember they're just artist's and most of us will always be looked as their fans only. Yes, let's be honest here. Maybe they do look at us as money making machines, but that's kinda unavoidable. And yes without us they won't succeed so they always do their "Thank You/Love You" speech to fans because it's just right to thank us fans, courtesy. If you ask me, have I ever thought of leaving the fandom? Honestly, Yes I did. But I didn't. After seeing Exo as OT12 that day for the first time performing, It was like, you could say "love at first sight" I promised to support them no matter what :) This year, when the Kris issue started, all of us were surprised. But I stayed positive and didn't choose sides, it's not wrong to cheer on both sides. There's nothing wrong wishing both sides all the best, what's wrong is wishing bad things to people. That's what I've been taught as I was a kid by my mom. We will never know what happened or his reason was. If he was indeed being selfish or if he had problems with the company, because we're not there when things happened. And now with the most recent one Baekhyun and Taeyeon dating, as I said there's nothing wrong in dating. Of course we thought it was too early, but love is unexpected. Then fans were angry because he promised those things about dating when he turned 35, remember love is unexpected and well some promises were meant to be broken. And besides he's in his early 20's. And then rumors are spreading about Baekhyun and Taeyeon, bad rumors. Okay, to be honest. I can believe those bad rumors actually, the entertainment business is full of deceit and lies. It's possible he may have had a really messed up past and an attitude, he's an artist he shows you what he want you to see and like. Most artist do all these nice thing to please fans, gain more fans and etc. that's business. I want to leave, but the hard part there is i'm being stubborn, I don't want to leave because of these things happening, I like their music so I'm sticking with them because of the music but not because of them as an individual, i used to like them because of the personality they showed us, but I know 70% may have been an act and the remaining percentage may have had some realness to it. Because of that bit of realness I liked them but right now, I won't be easily swayed by what they say or do. What I said may have sounded wrong, I'm sorry. Those are just my thoughts on everything that's happening. I loved them too much I admit that loving them too much was wrong. I kinda learned the hard way. but in the end I wish all the best for them and I'll try get rid this bit of pain,sadness, disappointment away. My fangirl life during 2006-2011 wasn't this hard. This is a first for me to go through this. Things we're just happening too fast and couldn't grasp on what was happening. Let's all take a rest a bit from all these, and give ourselves a break and enjoy little things outside it will help a bit~ ^^ to be honest I'm somehow more worried about our fellow Exo stans out there who maybe still hurt from all of these and who may have no one to confide to, remember fellow Exo stans are here international or Korean stans doesn't matter. ^^
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