heart2heartwritings

Thank you for reaching out to me. There’s something really important that you need to know: you deserve good things. You deserve someone who’s going to make you feel appreciated. And if he’s not doing that for you in your relationship, then he doesn’t deserve you. I think it’s really easy to be caught up in the “idea” of love and the “idea” of him that makes it so hard for all of us to let go. Consider this, would you want your friends to date someone like him? If the answer is no, then leave. Love is out there in the world for you so don’t settle for less than what you deserve.

Actions speak louder than words. I think you should take a moment and think, “do you like him? Or do you like the idea of him?” Many people fall into this situation. We are constantly reminded of all the wonderful memories we’ve had with a certain person and we keep coming back to those feelings. But your feelings for him are not him. Focus on the present. Is he, now, the same guy you fell for? And lastly, if he has told you time and time that he would change and hasn’t, then he’s not probably not worth investing. Anyone can easily say something and not mean it, but if he shows you he has changed through his actions then it means he cares more. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this helps.

heart2heartwritings

We were stuck in the middle of the biggest blizzard of the year and out of just curiosity, you suggested we go for a walk. I laughed at your silly statement and to my surprise, I found myself agreeing. And so I engulfed myself in my new black parka, slipped on my fuzz coated boots, and reached out for your hand. You led me first, making imprints for my following steps. And without me knowing, you stopped in your tracks and so the tip of my nose bumped into the broadness of your back. You turned around and looked down at me and I swear— as cliche as it sounds. The moment your eyes fell on me, my whole body felt like summer. Heat from within flourished every inch of my body and I felt like it was August 28th; the day we first met, all over again.

— heart2heartwritings

~ heart2heartwritings

~ heart2heartwritings

My best advice to you is to know your worth. Know that you are someone that is cherished by others and that you deserve so much more. Imagine if you had a kid, would you want your kid to be treated poorly by their significant other? I know that you could be attached to that person, but being in a relationship when both parties hurt each other is fatal. So just choose what’s best for you. To wrap it up, you should not be wasting your time with someone that is incapable of showing you mere respect. You are so much more than a rebound. To get over someone starts with you and the regards you have for yourself. Lastly, I can only hope that one day you’ll find a lover that appreciates you more than you can imagine.