half of something whole

no one’s ever going to remember your most embarrassing moment cuz they’re too busy remembering their own

as long as you're trying to do better, better is going to come.

the law of attraction, everyone

I don’t randomly start treating people different. My energy changes when yours does. I pay attention to effort, consistency, and how people handle me over time. If I become distant, it didn’t happen overnight. It happened after I got tired of overlooking the same things. The way I treat you will always reflect the way you treat me.

…being introverted doesn’t mean I’m not socially aware…

please wear sunscreen!!! I've seen "fuck the beauty industrial complex" posts about complicated skincare regimens and am 100% with them except sometimes they mention sunscreen and no. no. absolutely not. sunscreen is a wonderful supportive friend who wants to keep you safe, and you should let her do it. throw out all your other cosmetics and skincare products if you want, but keep your sunscreen. and if you're not wearing sunscreen, start wearing it!!!! this is not about terror of aging, this is not about every tiny imperfection our fucked-up culture has made you feel insecure about, this is about protecting yourself from skin cancer. wear the damn sunscreen.

superheroes try too hard to be cool these days when nobody can ever beat "his name is spider man and he dresses like a spider because he has the powers of a spider"

i think people really under sell the physical side effects of mental health disorders sometimes. like sure the depression and anxiety may be 'just in your head' but when what's in your head happens to disrupts your sleep schedule and prevent you from going outside regularly and eating consistent meals and exercising and generally taking care of your body. well it sure takes its toll huh.

washing dishes is evil because you go "oh fuck there's so many dishes this is gonna take foreverrr" and then you enter the dish abyss and emerge with your abdomen somehow covered in water and your hands all wrinky and then you look at the clock and what felt like half an hour was actually 10 minutes

love language: noticing what everyone else keeps pretending not to see

i've excellent instincts and no intention of using them

growing as a person who notices subtle changes in everyone and never being the one who’s noticed has a saddening effect. no, i won’t have a latte like i used to, but you probably don’t know that because you didn’t really paid attention. but you changed your cologne and i won’t let you know that i paid attention so it won’t make me look pathetic. byeeee

Protect your slow mornings. Their urgency doesn't have to be your emergency.