MORESOMES … ? marriage and the desire to indulge with multiples?

In the past a former tumblrite was sharing about "modern marriage", other men and ended with a casual question: “Hey, since when are you into mfm?” I've been asked for my thoughts yet again so Wendy will be "windy" and , well, go for it:

While I won't do into detail when it comes to me, my response to things moresome is personally positive both for me and whoever wishes to engage in the same if that is their choice. Devotees of the Dark Lord are free to indulge if and as they wish.

While I call them “moresomes” for obvious reasons, I have been “into mfm” , etc, since i am part of a circle of followers of the Dark Lord where we are free to engage with each other sensually as well as spiritually. Since I am a ‘singleton" (my husband is clueless when it comes to me and the Dark Lord, etc) and the membership is overwhelmingly couples I might find myself in “fmf’s” and “mfm’s” often enough because of this.

“MFM’s” can be fun because the female is the focus of both attention and "effort".

Moresomes defy and deny monogamy, Moresomes aren’t revelations that love is lost or love is blind. Moresomes speak to things sexual. Attraction is at the center. What is often overlooked is moresomes don’t advocate for plural marriages or polygamy. Moresomes simply acknowledge that each of us lust and desire and sensual attraction lies at the center because we all do just that. We find we are attracted to another or another may be attracted to us. We lust. We desire. We can’t help it.

Moresomes speak to sex as recreation. Moresomes aren’t a challenge to a committed relationship unless one makes it so. What has occurred in society is we have defined it as monogamous though history has shown us marriage is a construct. We are told polygamy is wrong … that it is sin. Yet, Solomon in all his glory had 700 wives and 300 concubines. When Yahweh, we are told in the Old Testament, confronted Solomon and told him that upon Solomon’s death Yahweh would destroy Israel because of unfaithfulness, such happened becausse that nation, despite it’s outward celebration of their faith, were not and had not been sincere. They had broken the “Great Oath” described in Deuteromony where, before the Israelite tribes entered their Promised Land, Yahweh shared if they broke the oath, were unfaithful and followed false gods (which they did after a while) He would strip the land from them and make them a “byword” among all nations. It happened. Israel divided after Solomon’s death into Israel and Judah. First Israel was conquered by the Assyrians. Judah would fall to Babylonians. How many Jewish-focused jokes do people still tell?

When Yahweh confronted Solomon, His reason had nothing to do with the 700 wives or the 300 concubines. Yahweh was angry because the wenches worshipped other gods and did so on the grounds of the Great Temple much less in Jerusalem. Most aren’t aware of this “history” because few actually study or know the Scriptures. I can see where having more than one spouse can result in issues. Still, that wasn’t the issue with the Yahweh. His concern was faithfulness to Him. Belief in Him. And the Mosaic law allowed for multiple marriages. Consider the requirement where if a man’s brother died leaving a widow, it was the responsibility of the remaining brother to marry her and get her pregnant … I won’t get into the reasons for doing so. It was and still is there in Scripture. I share this as I do not to say polygamy should be practiced. I point to the fact that over and over in the Old Testament Yahweh didn’t focus on the fucking. He focused on other issues. King David, for example, had more than one wife. Solomon’s mom was Bathsheba, who David seduced and had her husband murdered so he could have her. His first wife was the daughter of his predecessor, the first king of Israel, Saul. David had Solomon anointed and crowned before David died (its there in Scripture) to prevent his older sons succeeding to the throne according to the law. I won’t get into the sex lives of the patriarchs, etc. What I am saying is that while adultery was proscribed and is seen as sin, if you married even with other wives, etc, there were no real issues when it came to "more''. Where is this going?

It just might be that marriage is that singular significant intimate relationship that is meant to transcend one’s lusts and desires. At least it should (my opinion). A spouse doesn’t stop desiring because neither can fulfil our lusts and desires because marriage doesn’t prevent our doing just that-lusting and desiring. Maybe a spouse is meant to be more than a sex partner … a fact often witnessed among couples married for decades, etc. History is replete with affairs and casual sex happening since before histories were written. Maybe a way to say it is this: Might marriage be more than attraction and engaging in sexual activities. I believe when we describe “sex” as “intimate” one is minimizing “intimacy” which is meant to describe much more than simply knowing what a spouse looks like naked and how they are in bed. The Greeks had a sort of grasp of this reality. They had more than one word for the “all inclusive meaning for "love”. “ Eros” when speaking to simple sex. “Agape” for that deep intimate unconditional love that was meant for marriage. For me casual sex is "erotic" . . . I allow myself to indulge as I wish if I want because I am free to either fantasize or "fulfill" when i find I "lust and desire".

And . . .. well . . . "Moresomes" can just be me with my man and seeing another and find myself wondering what he's like in bed to engaging in sensual sex in and with a crowd and getting aroused (What's the word for this? . . . .tempted?) . . . . I don't see anything having to do with moresomes as 'sin'.

Maybe what i am describing is I have a deeper and different understanding about what is a marriage? Rather than continue to “fall in this well”, I will stop at this point . Otherwise, I need a longer rope and bigger bucket?

DECLARATIONS OF DEVOTION & the DARK LORD … . .

"It is rare that one who decides to follow the Dark Lord for whatever reason reduces his dedication to writing. Here a follower has done so. Posted in the past on another tumblr and lost to the tumblrgods, I post it here for the edification of those who are seeking their own solution when it comes to following Satan or the Dark Lord and what that means to them. Each of us make our own choices and often many grasp the label but keep a back door open to their xian faith. At the same time many are believers who keep that fact, that reality, tightly held within themselves for any number of reasons. Who we really are on the inside of ourselves is known only to us anyway … and the divine. For me He is the Dark Lord.

How many play games with Satan or the Dark Lord? How many struggle to come to terms with that inner battle which seems to constantly rage within themselves … conditioned by that fear of hell and the fact that satanic artwork itself is often our own worst enemy because the Dark Lord, even the Satan of the Bible, isn’t depicted, at least in words, as we see in current satanic art much less xian and other denunciations. The Bile says Satan, such as he is, is an angel of light, handsome and appealling I suppose. Certainly one to be listened to. And, insofar as the Dark Lord is concerned, He is manifested in the wonder of the universe itself and has the capacity to appear as He wishes to whoever, whenever and wherever He wishes.

For me the casting off of the inner burdens, moral and otherwise, of the xian faith was a liberating experience where I am able to see my world and able to exercise my freedoms within those limits that I call the Four Maxims: Prudence, Discretion, Responsibility and Common Sense. I think what I wish, jill when I want to the lusts that I feel but act only after considering both the Golden Rule and the Four Maxims. Why? Because there are others with the same free will I have and the same freedoms I also have. How we choose to engage with these is up to each of us and all of us, being individuals, do so differently and for different reasons.

So you know, he is active in his church and his wife comes from a family filled with ordained xian ministers, missionaries and lay leaders.

Just as xians are encouraged to rejoice when one comes into the fold, I do for this follower. I applaud his decision."

Have you ever considered sitting down, writing out your own personal declaration of devotion, folding it, and then burning it. The smoke, like incense from censors seen in xian rites where they symbolize prayers ascending, carries the same emphasis . . . the personal statement we make outwardly to express how we feel inwardly but is private to me.

WORSHIP, MEDITATION & CONTEMPLATION: Seeking & Experiencing the Dark Lord

I have been asked what one should “consider: when they seek the Dark Lord. I reach into the past and share this article written then trusting it will be helpful now. The title above is as it was then:

All three are necessary when one is seriously seeking the Presence of the Dark Lord much less seeking same or getting to know him.

Worship is believing in him.   Meditation is committing quality time to him no matter how short.  Contemplation is thinking about him on “your own time” and often when simply sitting somewhere or having a snack alone or when suddenly discovering your mind is on the “why” and suddenly he comes to mind.   The question for the seeker is “Are you doing any one of the three?”    Too often today’s seekers are looking for the shortcut to finding the “Satan” they want to exist.   The problem is when we seek such a solution any chance of our finding him is nonexistent.   I know too many who have grasped onto the current “satan” of the popular satanic bodies only,  pardon my repeating myself, to discover they are neither satanic nor supernatural…and the witches, especially the wiccans who believe in the god of your choice…leave one hanging because the satanic witches have to look behind the craft to see from who the power comes and make a choice.    So,  one can say contemplation leads to believing which gives rise to worship which leads to meditation which brings us back to a more mature and focused contemplation on issues that arise from belief.

The problem for popular satanism which doesn’t believe in Satan or the supernatural is the journey to find him is neverending because it is never successful and when one comes to a dilemma in life,  there is no one to call on and one is left at loose ends,  seeking yet another faith beyond themselves which leaves them again unfulfilled.     Why am I writing this?

Because I find myself in a moment of meditation and contemplation….and find I am able to ask not just for the presence of the Dark Lord but for him to give me an answer that gives me peace of mind because I am a sincere devotee.  I don’t have all the answers.  I am at times filled with any number of fears about this or that and I do, as I am now, dealing with a dilemma best left undescribed.   That doesn’t shake my faith in a Dark Lord.   in fact, in the Dark Lord.   Because I believe in him and he has responded in the past.   I simply have to be willing to hear his voice and not rush to judgment or get angry because the dilemma has arisen.

I have written this article because these three words have come to me in my moment when I have done similar to what you see in the photo above.   Take time in my pentagram in the candlelight with just me and him.    As the candle flickers I feel at ease and know that a response will come,  in his way,  in the way he wants,  within the time he allows and because of the nature of the question,  I won’t have to wait.

I don’t need to take any shortcuts nor get angry because my Dark Lord isn’t molded in my own or any image other than his own.   The Dark Lord isn’t involved in a popularity contest trying to win people to his cause.   He has been around since the beginning and doesn’t need to drum up a crowd or even have a church that is called by his name.   Ask yourself why and then think about it.   

It may be the above article leaves more questions than it gives answers for some. I trust in providing and answer and compelling one to learn more the article is helpful and His Wickedness, a fond appellation I give to the Dark Lord (to set Him apart from the xian Almighty, is pleased. Forgive any flaws.

SEX MAJICK, ORGASMS, & INTENTION?

"Sex magic (sometimes spelled sex magick) is any type of sexual activity used in magical, ritualistic or otherwise religious and spiritual pursuits. One practice of sex magic is using sexual arousal or orgasm with visualization of a desired result. . . . . sexual energy is a potent force that can be harnessed to transcend one's normally perceived reality."

The topic and the illustration are both "edgy" yet appropriate. Often overlooked by many who profess to follow the Dark Lord or otherwise relate to the "other side", sex majick is often, I again use the word overlooked when it comes to seeking solutions to situations because masturbatiion is seen as sex focused with the goal being the climax or orgasm centered around that explosive pleasure that briefly and sometimes longer wafts as it happens and afterward. Its a "pleasure me" experience for most where often one is watching porn or living out a fantasy. Women jill (my word for the deed) all the time, often unwillingto admit they do. However, my emphasis here is this:

Is there more there when we indulge and experience that sexual energy that emerges while it happens? Is there something I will describe as "supernatural communication" where if one has a need ,a desire, if they focus on that need or desire, when they orgasm, does all that sexual energy transcend similar to a petition of sorts where the Beyond listens and responds?

I once asked that question and compared it to "knowing the code" in order to get "Heaven" to respond, similar to "open sesame" and the cave to treasures opens (see Ali Baba & The Forty Thieves). Have an issue, have an orgasm and in the midst of it happening, your petition is presented and all is well. A problem arose with that conclusion: when one is in the thrall and throes of an orgasm, is one even able to or capable of suddenly making a petition not at all related to things sensual and sexual, etc.? It's an honest query. And thats only one. I came to the conclusion I was altogether missing the point. Sex majick isn't petition . . . its transcendance. It wasn't that an orgasm opened the door where I was able to communicate with "Heaven". It was me sharing me with the Dark Lord from a place deep within me- it's hard to describe. It's as if in the moment , you know He's there and listening . . . .Present in the . . . passion.

Still, I have learned that dealing with the Dark Lord isn't complicated. In fact, doing so is quite easy. We can make it hard and often do. What is truly hard is "believing". All the other indicia are out there for me to pick and choose when it comes to how I exercise my followship and live out my belief. The fact is since the Old Spectre is incomprehensible and incomparable He (always remember I elect to describe Him in the masculine but He is more), He can do as He damn well pleases and does. So who am i to say that sex magick is ineffective when so many indulge. What a follower has to realize is what is happening is more than the feeling that comes from the orgasm. For example, now when I orgasm via jilliing or otherwise I find myself silently if not orally praising the Dark Lord. And something IS happening. For you see, I now see and feels more in my orgasms and pleasure though I can't describe it.

Some say that one's intentions can be "communicated" during the process. Others share it occurs when the climax or orgasm occurs. I'm reminded of xian theologians speaking to what, where and why something is permissible and sinful. What IS important is both belief and honesty in intent. The energy is there. It happens when one orgasms. The release we feel is real. How the Dark Lord responds is up to Him. It's done. Overall, it's a mystery. Key to understanding this is transcendance.

Sex majick is more than a simple or seeming petition process where the Divine will dance to our tune. It is a very personal, passionate, belief even if we doubt, process where one's very being is thrust into the experience. It's more than a recipe for divine communication. If that is how it's seen, it's ineffective. There are others better able to describe what I am attempting to share. One can readily come to that conclusion by going online. What is missed by most is, I descibe it this way, there can be more to an orgasm than the simple sensual pleasure we experience. It's that place where, when I give it serious thought, one realizes following the Dark Lord is a relationship. Its not religion with all is expectations, requirements and structures. Sure, sex is often "fun" and "release". But there can be more in that dynamic.

I have always shared that i see jilling-what I describe as solo sex-as a gift given to us by the Creator because we also have freedom to think and feel (the senses) freely (actually more than that because often lust and desire emerge at the most unlikely of times or moments). Just as we are told sex between a caring couple is special, might it be that jilling, given to us as it is by Creation, is likewise special, personal and private to each of us.

Enough said though more can be. This isn't well written and typos occur, it's "off the cuff" but it's from the heart. And, yes, I engage in sex magick. Its personal to me.

Solstice Blessings to all . . .

The Left-Hand Path (LHP) in witchcraft and the broader occult tradition refers to a set of spiritual practices, philosophies, and paths that emphasize personal empowerment, self-deification, and the pursuit of individual freedom. The Left-Hand Path is often contrasted with the Right-Hand Path (RHP), which typically focuses on spiritual alignment with external moral or divine laws. Here are some key aspects of the Left-Hand Path in witchcraft:

• Self-empowerment: LHP practitioners typically focus on achieving personal power and mastery, often rejecting traditional religious or societal constraints. This includes embracing one's own desires, will, and inner strength.

• Individualism and Autonomy: The LHP emphasizes personal autonomy, with practitioners believing that they are their own authority and can shape their fate through willpower and self-determination.

• Rejection of Traditional Morality: LHP practitioners may reject conventional moral standards, particularly those imposed by mainstream religions like Christianity. They believe in creating their own ethical framework based on personal growth and enlightenment rather than obedience to external laws.

• Occult Knowledge and Rituals: The Left-Hand Path often involves the use of occult rituals, symbols, and magick to tap into unseen forces or realms. These practices might include working with deities or spirits that are considered "dark" or "unconventional" within mainstream religious contexts.

• Deification and Transcendence: A central aspect of the Left-Hand Path is the idea of self-deification—becoming one’s own god or embracing the divine within. This process often involves transcending the limitations of the material world and the ego.

• Exploration of Taboo or Forbidden Knowledge: LHP practitioners are often drawn to exploring areas considered taboo or forbidden by mainstream religions, such as the study of death, the afterlife, or working with spirits traditionally seen as "evil" or "chaotic."

• Darkness and Shadow Work: The LHP is sometimes associated with the "dark" side of spirituality, including shadow work, which involves confronting one's hidden, suppressed, or negative aspects to achieve greater self-awareness and healing.

While the Left-Hand Path is often misunderstood as "evil," it is more about personal transformation and embracing one's true self, free from societal or religious conditioning. Some well-known figures associated with the Left-Hand Path include Aleister Crowley, Michael W. Ford, and other occultists who focus on self-development and magickal practices.

It’s important to note that the Left-Hand Path can vary significantly in its specific practices and beliefs depending on the individual or tradition. Some practitioners might lean more toward spiritual enlightenment, while others focus on power dynamics and mastery over external forces.

MASTURBATION OVER RELIGION

Organized religions throughout the world are indeed experiencing a decline in numbers, a trend that is inversely proportional to the exponential growth of accessible information. The proliferation of the internet, social media, and other digital platforms has democratized knowledge, allowing individuals to seek out answers to life's profound questions beyond the dogma of religious doctrine. As a result, more people are opting out of traditional religious affiliations, instead adopting more personalized and nuanced belief systems that prioritize critical thinking and intellectual curiosity.

This shift is particularly pronounced among younger generations, who are more likely to eschew the constraints of organized religion in favor of a more fluid and adaptive approach to spirituality. The ready availability of information has also led to a greater awareness of the historical and cultural contexts that have shaped religious beliefs, allowing individuals to critically evaluate the claims and biases that underpin these belief systems.

Consequently, many are concluding that the tenets of organized religion are no longer tenable in the face of scientific evidence, philosophical inquiry, and simple human reason. As people become more informed and empowered to think for themselves, the authority of religious institutions is understandably waning, leading to a decline in attendance, membership, and overall influence.

This trend is by no means limited to the West, as nations across the globe are witnessing a similar phenomenon, with many people opting for a more secular and rational approach to understanding the world and their place within it. Ultimately, the increasing accessibility of information is catalyzing a profound transformation in the way people think about religion, spirituality, and the human experience, one that promises to reshape the cultural and philosophical landscape of our world.

I prefer Lilith, and her gifts of desire, temptation, and indulgence, which many interpret as Lust, Wickedness, and Perversions.

These gifts are more tangible or relatable than the more abstract and intangible qualities associated with factious figures such as the holy spirit, god, or jesus.