a life update for anyone who has followed me since all those years ago, i still have a lot of things to work through, but i am doing well. i live in a city i love and im working towards a doctors in vet med. my apartment is so cute and decorated just how i like it, i have a lot of freedom, even if its a little lonely sometimes. i do have a partner who is wonderful and supportive, who has seen me through a lot this last year. there is a lot of growing up left for me it feels like but maybe i’ll always feel that way. at least things are better for me than they were when i was 16! i hope life has been good to everyone here.

this was really helpful thank u !! i have starting journaling but i think it’s just so much stuff has needed to be addressed and ‘fixed’ for a while but i’ve constantly but it on the back burner and it’s just. the accumulation of over a years worth of things tht i should have realized were hurting me in more than one way .. my biggest thing rn is not necessarily being okay w being alone / lonely cuz i think i do enjoy being by myself but i guess i think i need to change how i view relationships and love esp when it comes to romance ? but i think thts more of a. broadening what it means to love myself ?? like idk does that start w self love or even self like. i also want to just focus on learning more abt myself and why i think the way i do and to learn how to be nicer to myself .. any other tips wld be helpful and very appreciated!!