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But now, I get it. I get the patience. I get the taking the time to truly get to know someone. I think it’s worth getting to know someone on a personal level, as a friend, as a companion, as someone who just genuinely cares and longs for connection.

I don’t like being alone, but I need to be. I want to be. I want to focus on my needs, stick to my intentions and find myself in a new light.

Loving too hard isn’t a weakness.

Caring too much isn’t a flaw.

Missing parts of people or things that no longer exist is valid.

Committing and wanting to be your best for someone or those around you isn’t being a simp.

Hold the door

Express gratitude

Appreciate others

Smile when you make eye contact with strangers

Hug your friends before you leave

Call your mom

Save the voicemails that matter

I‘ve got that feminine sensitivity and softness but also that masc physical appearance and energy.

So not only will I listen to you and care about your feelings, but I’ll ward off what is unwanted and offer a you sense of safety while around me.

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