× Big Bro Remus ×

Big brother; devoted caregiver; and devious, mischievous menace.

Feel free to call me Big Bro, Mister, Remus/Remy, or any other non-parental, neutral/masculine name. Bro, dude, and "that scary looking guy over there" are also acceptable.

Don't be afraid to talk to me, I may be a little intimidating on the outside but I'm a softie at heart (that's a secret though, okay?)

Click here for a post about my discord server!

Hey there newbie!

I really appreciate that, I'm sure you're pretty cool too. I'm a stoner myself so it'd be a little remiss of me to penalize someone for smoking, and I think substances can be really helpful in exploring new or vulnerable headspaces.

Growing up with you'd be cool,

Hanging out, games after school,

The older bro you never had,

Kinder than your mum or dad,

Stronger than your schoolyard thugs,

For you, the biggest, longest hugs,

A tease, a git, a little scarred,

I swear I'd love you stupid hard.

So things have gotten a little rough around here recently. Big life changes, like moving house, the ending of my two year relationship/dynamic, and my friend preparing to move in, take their toll.

I'm actually okay, I think. I hopped on a train to London almost a week ago to come and stay with friends, and I haven't gone home yet. They're taking really good care of me, and I know I wouldn't be doing this well without them. The same goes for my long-distance and online friends as well.

So my posts may be a little spotty for the next few months, but overall, I'm surrounded by love and full of hope. My discord server is doing really well, and I'll be able to go back on T once I have a roommate, which is very exciting.

All hard things in life happen at times where there are still opportunities to find joy.

I don't recognise myself right now; I must be growing. 🌱

Hey there new kid!

I'm doing great, thanks for asking! I've had a very productive day and now I'm chilling at home with the patio doors open and a soft TV show on. 💙

That's a tough one. I'd have to say either briám with couscous, or vegan hosomaki. Two very different meals, but they work for different moods and different weather. I love briám because it calls back to my Greek family, but I love hosomaki rolls because they're just so morish. Avocado especially.

I know that sometimes it can be hard to understand this from the other side, but you regressors should know that us caregivers love what we do.

Caregiving isn't a burden, or a heavy weight, or a chore. Caregiving is fulfilling, it's fun, and it's something we want to do even when we're not able to.

We spend time daydreaming about caregiving just like you guys daydream about being cared for. We see social media posts and think to ourselves "I can't wait to do that with someone." We miss being there for people when there's no one to be there for, and we're filled with joy when someone needs to rely on us.

Of course, everyone is different, and these are just generalisations made from my own experiences and those of my friends and community members. CGs who don't experience these things are just as wonderful and important, but I know that sometimes it can be hard to believe that we actually enjoy being caregivers, especially for kiddos who would see it as such a scary responsibility themselves.

We love being here for you, we love what we do, and we're lucky to have you. Your healing heals us too, so thank you for letting us do this. Thank you for being brave enough to be vulnerable, for letting us fill bottles and kiss boo-boos.

We couldn't do this without you.

🪼┊"No kid, we can't go to the park right now, it's too far. How about we watch a movie instead?"

💙┊Negotiating with the little ones to play "libraries" instead of "who can scream the loudest".

☔┊Yawning, stretching, sighing. So much sighing.

🐾┊"Kid, no- this isn't the time to throw all your toys on the floor.."

💧┊Taking a deep breath when the little ones do something they shouldn't, because you should never reprimand when you're frustrated.

🫐┊"Why don't we play the quiet game?"

🌀┊Eventually just curling up under a blanket and letting the kiddos climb all over them.

- mcr kiddo

Hi princess,

It's finally ready!

Welcome to The Regression Rebellion!

A safe and supportive community of open-minded and easy-going adults, with a fun pirate theme and an attentive Captain. Everybody is welcome! No more "Us Vs Them", dualcom hate, or pointless discourse. This server aims to foster maturity and tolerance, whilst remaining relaxed and cosy!

Stoners, furries, kemonomimis, therians, otherkin, regressors, dreamers, bigs, middles, littles and critters all welcome aboard The Regrestia!

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Hi kiddo,

Hi kiddo!

Well that honestly sounds like the most gracefully beautiful unicorn there ever was. In my mind she resembles Scrappy Doo from the first Scooby Doo movie, specifically during the moment where he's shrinking back down to puppy-size, but his head remains huge. It's low-key a little scary so I won't post a pic, but I have a feeling I'm spot-on. 🤭

Hi there kiddo!

Hey there sweetheart,

One of my favourite things, that will always be one of my favourite things, is going out with friends who identify as littles or regressors.

Yes, please rely on me. Please look to me for guidance. I promise I'll keep you safe. Please don't worry about anything. Go have fun, and let me sit over here and watch out for you all. I love being the designated adult. The one who's planning everyone's routes home, the one who's checking on those who've tripped up or bumped into something, the one who's keeping track of everyone who walks by and making sure no one is a potential danger.

Not a mum friend, but a big bro friend.

Hi there new friend,