Big brother; devoted caregiver; and devious, mischievous menace.
Feel free to call me Big Bro, Mister, Remus/Remy, or any other non-parental, neutral/masculine name. Bro, dude, and "that scary looking guy over there" are also acceptable.
Don't be afraid to talk to me, I may be a little intimidating on the outside but I'm a softie at heart (that's a secret though, okay?)
Click here for a post about my discord server!
This is a non-com blog. Whoever you are, however you identify, you are welcome here. All I ask is that you keep comments, asks and added tags SFW. Please do not reblog my posts to NSFW blogs.
โ I am completely anti-censorship. Police your own media engagement, not that of others.
โ I am not "pro-ship" or "anti-ship" or anything else - I will not assume the media you like doubles as your moral compass; mine certainly does not.
โ I wholeheartedly support people of all varieties, communities, lifestyles and walks of life. If you are "anti" anything that consenting adults do in their private lives, please DNI. Hatred and prejudice isn't welcome here no matter who it's directed at.
โ I support 420, and especially so kiddos who need it in order to feel small. You are valid.
โ I am not a system. Please do not ask me what I do or do not support in regards to systems or anyone with DID/OSDD. I do not have the right to an opinion on a community I am not a part of, nor am I qualified to make comments on diagnoses or conditions.
Basically I have no negative feelings towards anyone who isn't actively harming others, which should honestly be the standard.
I will block freely if your vibes seem off or your aesthetic unsettles me, as that is reason enough. Please feel free to do the same! /gen
My loves : Digital art, strong coffee, plants & flowers, the ocean, lofi & rock music, videogames, animals of all kinds, fairy lights, vegan food, late night drives, vintage consoles & retro decor.
My hates : Bigotry, genuine bullying in any form (self-directed included), closed-minded and judgemental people, drama & immaturity, gatekeeping, one-true-wayism, the government.
I will post : Short stories, RP posts, cosy photography, digital art, moodboards, userboxes, food, 420 and alcohol mentions, swears and curse words, silly questions & light-hearted textposts.
I won't post : NSFW, vents, common triggers (bugs, sharps, medical, etc), loud audios, flashing colours, offensive or scary posts, horror/gore, anything "AI".
My personality in terms of caregiving is very protective and comforting, at times teasing or bossy. I'm a big brother, not a parent, and I don't always strive to be the perfect influence.
I love to soothe worries, wipe tears and bandage knees. I love being a positive guiding force, and being someone people feel safe going to for advice and support. I enjoy standing up for others and helping them to feel safe.
That being said, I'm not always sunshine and rainbows; my love language is bullying, teasing, and generally being the type of menace that only a big brother can be. I'm a devious and rebellious person by nature, and may even teach you a sneaky swear word or two. Just let me know if I ever go too far, and I'll reel it in. I'll never take offense at a boundary.
โ I've been in the agere community 10+ years.
โ I'm a qualified florist, horticulturalist, artist and animator.
โ I grew up on a farm, have an archery license, and can ride horses.
โ I'm British and live in a sleepy seaside town, but I'm half Greek and learning the language.
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