New/Old relationships
This topic has never been so relevant to myself personally as it is this moment.
It’s outrageous, how an old relationship can ruin a new relationship. Not in the sense of boyfriend and girlfriend, but more in the sense of friendship.
I will never ever regret and past relationships I’ve had. Nor say anything horrible or talk down that person. Simply because it once made you happy, and I know it’s such a clichè but it’s absolutely relevant. More often than not in 2016 people judge you by what they’ve heard from their friend, which their friend heard from another friend who hear some far fetched story from an old relationship.
This kills me, first of all things change. Whether it be six months or two years, people change. Secondly, you don’t know the circumstances or which story you’ve been told. Not to mention make your own judgement of that person. Have an open mind without having a perception of that person before meeting them or getting to know them.
Regardless there’s always going to be humans who dislike you in life, which is fine. I don’t expect to get along with everybody I meet were all human, but that obviously makes it a biased opinion if you hear from somebody who hates me.
Now I’ve got all the things in regard to old relationships affecting new. All I wish for now in this world create new friendships and make my current friendships stronger, people say when you’re in your twenties you either get closer or lose them. I value all of my friends but I guess time will unfortunately tell.
It’s times like these I wish I awoke in a new country, nobody knew me or my past. Got to know me to judge me whether it be good or bad. Had to actually introduce myself to these new people.
This is all typical Adelaide.
9:33pm
04/02/2016
