butch dad

I saw a post on a terf blog before I blocked it from someone being like "Ummm is anybody else really concerned about the rise of antisocial kinks like pissing" and it made me laugh so hard I almost did a little antisocial kink myself

obviously other things are also happening but it is a very funny tonal jump to go from annihilation’s “you are becoming a part of this hostile landscape. you are participating in a transformation to which you cannot consent. the biological processes you’ve devoted your life to studying are going to consume you. when you signed up for this suicide mission you must have known you were never going to leave this place the same way you entered it. how much of you is still human? how much of you ever was?” to authority’s “guy with mommy issues engages in passive aggressive corporate power play”

the sex binary is socially constructed and not actually descriptive of any biological truth. you know that, right? it's important to me that you know that

i know people can be a little overzealous in describing political backslides ("this used to be the feminism website!!!" etc.) but it's disturbing to me how much incredulity i've gotten from other trans people as of late just for, like, saying that "biological woman" is neither a real category nor a phrase that should ever leave your mouth uncritically

have to get groceries this week and had a couple of big bills come out over the last few days,, anything helps please and thank you

mwah is a very important word

big problem on here is a lot of people seem to think just being transgender makes you a sensible political theorist

being transgender doesn't even make you a sensible gender theorist

Being a calm, gentle, non-reactive person is really hard work, which is probably why many people are none of these things. Personally I think it’s worth it but sometimes one does want to just roll around on the floor wailing at the top of one’s lungs

People in my notes who think I’m repressed or dissociating: you will feel better when you learn emotions are not a binary of Not Feeling It vs Being Overwhelmed By It

Ok but How Do I Do That