Sadder Daze

“We think that forgiveness is weakness, but it’s absolutely not; it takes a very strong person to forgive.”

“The most basic premise for giving love is knowing the person one loves. Before there can be any real love, one must find out what the other person is like. One has to become aware, conscious of that person’s true being, in order to love that very person and not some image of one’s own that one projects upon the other. It is altogether too easy to believe that I really love someone when all I am doing is enjoying my own ideal of what I would like that person to be. And probably the surest way of finding out the difference is by listening to the other person, allowing oneself to be open and sensitive to that person’s real reactions.”

“love languages are constantly changing and new ones are simultaneously being born. you’re always evolving, so the way you were loved yesterday may not be the way you need to be loved today, but find no shame in that, find no guilt in wanting to be met where your growth is now.”

“to live in your truth so much that the scent of authenticity follows you wherever you go, to live in your truth so much that the energy you leave behind leaves no room for assumption, to live in your truth so much that you bulletproof yourself from their opinions and projections.”

“It hurts knowing you did your best and know it still isn’t good enough.”

“Plan difficult tasks through the simplest tasks. Achieve large tasks through the smallest tasks.”

As time goes on, you'll understand. What lasts, lasts; what doesn't, doesn't. Time solves most things. And what time can't solve, you have to solve yourself.

Rune Lazuli // Jerzy Kosiński

"my darling, you will never be unloved by me you are too well tangled in my soul"

“Today I forgive myself. Not just once. Again, and again, and again. As many times as it takes to find peace.”