Gettinfatter95

• If you're gonna be someone who's gonna post your gaining journey or pictures of yourself at all, don't associate your tumblr account with a personal email, just for safety since there are creeps who have doxxed people before

• When your posts start getting more traffic, especially pics and such. You'll get a shit ton of dms, don't answer them all and don't feel pressured to dm or talk to anyone, a good number of them will be creeps or people who don't respect you, take your time and if you do wish to interact with them, choose wisely, everyone and anyone can be nice at the start of the conversation

• There's a reason why many feeders/feedees (such as me) have their dms closed

• Don't feel bad for blocking someone, if they disrespected you and they're still being an asshole, don't hesitate and don't overexplain yourself

• Be critical, just because this is a fat positive space compared to the outside, doesn't mean there's not fatphobia

• Just because someone might seem a "politically correct person" that seems to stand for what's right, doesn't necessarily translate to respect towards you

• I would suggest that you don't show your face or any identifying tattoos, cover them or photoshop them out if necessary, people have been doxxed this way

• There will be people who will only look out for you because of the free content you provide them, and when you stop giving them that, their communication with you will stop as well, my suggestion would be to not give out free content like that, at least not without knowing them

• There's misogyny in this space and quite a lot at times

• People can and will treat you in dehumanizing ways, your well being and mental health should always come first, take a break from this space if it's needed

Secondly - do you have a favourite type of dessert that you can eat your body weight in (as big as that is haha)? 😘

Aw thank you! I'm so flattered 😭 My DMs are open if you'd like to connect off of anon! 😊

As for desserts, that's a tough one!!

If I had to choose it would probably be éclairs 🤤 They are so light plus easy to eat and the cream and chocolate combo is 🔥🔥🔥.

I'd happily eat nothing but éclairs for an evening, maybe with some shake to wash it down 😌

Finding someone who I love and care about who also shares this fetish? Out of this fucking world. I get to spoil and pamper him in the way I’ve always dreamed of - encouraging his over indulgence, his hedonism. Worshiping his body and telling him what a good boy he is. I get to praise him for his softness, his gluttony, everything.

This is so fucking adorable!!!!!!