do you think Yoongi is a sub?
So... I find the trend to label people as A DOM or A SUB strange. I see people treat those labels as fixed identifiers the way you might use gay or straight and that just doesn’t track with my own sexual experience or knowledge of other humans.
Obviously some people have very extreme fixed preferences and are only comfortable in one sexual role, but most people seem to fall more on a spectrum / enjoy experimenting and trying new things / have changing preferences over the course of their lives or with different partners. I think declaring something like “he’s a dom” or “I’m a sub” puts restrictive labels on people and assumes that sexual preferences correlate with other aspects of our personality in a way that I think they rarely do in real life.
Plus, the vast majority of my sexual experiences haven’t had a defined “dom” and “sub” at all. It’s just been two people having fun together. And I suspect that is true for lots of other people as well.
So, no, I don’t think Yoongi is “a sub” in the idea that he could only ever enjoy a submissive role in sex. I actually had him ranked pretty high on the great dom list until a friend of mine made some compelling arguments about Namjoon. 😂 And I quite enjoy writing him in a dominant role in Void. I just think that in those circumstances where he would feel comfortable subbing, it would be a beautiful thing to behold.






















