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So... I find the trend to label people as A DOM or A SUB strange. I see people treat those labels as fixed identifiers the way you might use gay or straight and that just doesn’t track with my own sexual experience or knowledge of other humans.

Obviously some people have very extreme fixed preferences and are only comfortable in one sexual role, but most people seem to fall more on a spectrum / enjoy experimenting and trying new things / have changing preferences over the course of their lives or with different partners. I think declaring something like “he’s a dom” or “I’m a sub” puts restrictive labels on people and assumes that sexual preferences correlate with other aspects of our personality in a way that I think they rarely do in real life.

Plus, the vast majority of my sexual experiences haven’t had a defined “dom” and “sub” at all. It’s just been two people having fun together. And I suspect that is true for lots of other people as well.

1. I’m going to write the story that I want to write based on what I feel is true of my characters. I will tag it appropriately so my readers can choose whether or not they want to read it, but I will write the story I want to write. 

2. I’ve mentioned a few times now that not every character in Void is straight. I’m not going to tell you any specifics of my story because that would spoil it for my curious readers, but I will say that there will be member x member plotlines and smut at some point in this story. 

3. If you have followed my blog for any length of time, or read some of my other works, or looked at any of my fic recs, you would know that I enjoy and fully support writing the members as gay in fanfiction. People can write whatever kind of fiction they want. That’s the whole point. 

4. In the future, the next time you find yourself writing “not to sound homophobic” just stop. Just pause, breathe, back that delete key up a few spaces and go do something else. 

I’m not going to answer any further asks on this topic, whether from you or from any of my followers (even if supportive). I hate answering asks in a negative way and the last thing I want to do is stress out my followers or have some big debate on this topic. I just needed to make my position clear.

Umm… yes.

Yes, please.

In celebration of Mr. Worldwide Handsome’s birthday, here’s a sneak peak of the sexiest pilot in the galaxy. 

- i’m no good at math

- i’ll stop wearing black when they make a darker colour

- she says she’s no good with words but i’m worse

- i’m not a crybaby, i’m the crybaby

- i’ve got a lousy arm

- i slept in last night’s clothes

- i’m a nervous wreck