i’m jules, polaris, or octave. i’m 22, white, and queer. i follow from @magarula!

this blog has historically been centered around nonbinary people, love between nonbinary people, etc. but people who aren’t nonbinary can follow! i have changed a lot since i made this blog and even though i don’t identify as loveless, sometimes i get into moods so i’ll probably post less lovey-dovey stuff.

BYF:

i have too many followers to prune super carefully, but generally speaking here are my guidelines for what gets you blocked. i block liberally, sometimes its for something not here either. since this is a sideblog, sometimes i forget to block from my main and this one too.

- racism, antisemitism, islamophobia

- radfem beliefs

- transmed beliefs

- exclusionist beliefs

- if you choose to label yourself an anti-anti

- not really something that will get you blocked but just so you know i don’t tag queer if it’s being used as an identity (the same with other lgbt+ identity slurs) and i would prefer you not do it either on my posts. if my blog’s not for you there are other options!

i don’t want to debate these with strangers

Discord Server:

i also run a discord server! unlike the blog itself, the server is exclusively for nonbinary people (it is also an appropriate place to question being nonbinary). there’s a carrd for the rules and information about the server, but the same details are in the server itself if you want to join to read them that way. it is all ages and i’m very careful to keep it appropriate, but it does trend 17-22ish

https://discord.gg/8XPbXR67wH

https://genderwave.carrd.co/

Notes:

if the askbox is open, feel free to send something! discourse will be deleted but if you have a genuine question about my stance on something that is the line between you feeling comfortable or not, please send off-anon. DMs should always be open, so feel free to shoot me a line that way.

i'm going to be honest, you would get a lot of different answers from different people. i, however, am in full support of everyone using whatever pronouns fit best. i think literally everyone in the entire world should be free to play with gender/pronouns. Neopronouns are more common among trans people, but there's nothing wrong with enjoying the sound of a different string of letters more than she/her.

to be 100% honest, there’s not a lot in the rules that isn’t already on my blog. it is an intentionally all-ages server (people need to be upfront about their age, though, and nsfw content rules are heavily enforced).

as far as media consumption goes, the server mostly self-moderates. its the kind of community where it is appropriate to share issues you have with a media and its appropriate to ask things to be blacklisted. there are a very few select things that moderators may deem violations of these rules from the server itself: “racism, ableism (including eugenics), any form of lgbt+ phobia, antisemitism, etc. will not be tolerated”. it’s sort of on a case-by-case basis, so if you want to ask about something specific it’s fine to dm me or join the server and ask there

this is the actual server introduction (there are other rules that are specific to channels that don’t have to do with whether you are welcome or not)

this server is for nonbinary people and those who do not belong to a single binary gender to meet eachother! we are accepting of neopronouns, aro/ace-spec inclusive, and non-dysphoric friendly (that means please no transmeds)

racism, ableism (including eugenics), any form of lgbt+ phobia, antisemitism, etc. will not be tolerated.

this isn't a safe spot for any p-dophile/map. if there's a problem we promise we will address it as soon as it comes to our attention

questioning people are welcome, but please be respectful! if you end up not identifying as nonbinary after joining the chat, you are more than welcome to stay in our community.