WE ARE ANYTHING BUT POSSIBLE

“word hashtag my word #myword” has done irreversible damage to my vocabulary

that femcel cat girl anime is completely missing the point as usual because the titular catgirl is skinny, light skinned, trendy untextured haircut in an expensive and time consuming color, and has a basic anime face ie not “ugly”. you are not addressing any actual harmful stereotypes this is just the usual menhera cosplay bullshit, and its where basically the entire edifice of “anime girl but relatable” fails as a genre. because the relatable anime girls HAVE TO be conventionally attractive and thin even when the intended audience is not. japan and the usa are both total cultural failures in this regard “shes just like me fr” no she isnt because she has a short midface and positive canthal tilt, not to mention basic symmetry. you want to see what real women look like go look at the amazon reviews for popular makeup products. you cant handle it

One legitimately weird thing about Tumblr is that we literally can’t code for shit, many people quit working at Tumblr due to a hostile work environment, and we can’t seem to program a simple blogging website to not flood your RAM.

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speaking as someone who found voice training to be a fulfilling and sometimes even enjoyable experience: everyone needs to shut the fuck up and leave trans women alone about our voices forever. treating a woman more poorly than you would otherwise just because you feel some way about the sound of her voice is a fucked up way to treat someone and if you do, you should feel ashamed. i wish i had been allowed to be motivated exclusively by the intrinsic fulfillment of taking hold of my femininity on my own terms. but regardless of whether i liked that process, i mostly did it because I wanted to make it less likely that I'd be discriminated against. and guess what? it worked. i remember the first day my voice passed on the phone. the joy of it was somewhat qualified by the growing and uncomfortable awareness of how much better i had just been treated, confirmation that the friction I'd been feeling was real by way of its sudden disappearance. i *like* the sound of my voice and it upsets me that my favorite thing about it is how well it prevents me from being abused.