hello melo

the day is gonna end anyway and your warm bed will be waiting so you might as well do the hard things and not let them ruin your day

the older i get, the more i need time & personal space to be as boring as possible

you’ll be fine. you made it out of impossible situations before and you will do it again

It is okay if the past still affects you. You can understand why it happened. You can have insight. You can be thriving in most areas of your life. And still something small can trigger the old pain. This does not mean you have gone backwards. It means you are human. You are allowed to still be affected.

learning how to react less because why should i have to lose my mind just to be understood

you are not a failure for not being able to handle everything on your own. you’re not having a hard time because you’re weaker than other people, things truly have been really difficult lately and other people would probably have a hard time too, and those who are overly critical of you don’t go through the same things you do, and they would probably struggle if they did. please have a little compassion for yourself. things have been really hard and you are not exaggerating. asking for help doesn’t make you a needless burden. you don’t have to carry all that alone.

don't be mean to yourself that's you

you live there

With Tumblr messages crashing as often as it does nowadays, we might as well all do this lol.