I'm Phox, and welcome to Jackass

It's nuts how common it is to not allow children to be angry, even (especially) in households where adults are angry all the time. As a child I knew my own anger was unacceptable--not just expressing it outwardly but feeling it at all. So now as an adult my immediate reaction to my own anger is often to feel guilt instead of like. Noticing when someone is being rude or unfair or my boundaries are being violated or whatever. fucked up.

I bring a real 'actually people who are pregnant do deserve some special consideration because they are effectively at least temporarily disabled if not permanently after some complications' vibe to the party that a lot of people don't seem to like

Wait how the hell does she have two different bangs at once

You cannot comprehend the powers of an italian woman from new jersey

if anything happens in your life you should start having strange thoughts and beliefs

What if the thing that happens in my life is that I start having strange thoughts and beliefs unprovoked