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When you are too obsessed into something, albeit people or things, and you are still conscious enough to realize that it has no good towards you. 

You should try to pull yourself out from the big picture, we as human who are born with thoughts and emotions sometimes can’t help but to feel, can’t help but to react to something that you didn’t intend to.

Try to imagine a picture in your head, then pull yourself to stand outside of the picture and look at it. Look at the timeline of your life, look at what you have done so far and how far more to go.

Ask yourself, does it worth your time to be so obsessed to something that leads you nowhere but you are somehow controlled by it, being affected by it, being forced to feel something that you don’t want to feel when you have the choice to be awake, to see the real you.

The most important thing in life is to be able to jump out from a situation you are in, and be able to see if what you are doing is acceptable, or if it is want you really want to see yourself doing.

Thoughts origin: Very much obsessed with an actor, to the extend of stalking him and constantly imagining myself being married to him (ridiculous), try to pick up everything that he likes, know what movies he’s been in, analyze his ex girlfriends to see what we have in common or what can be done to look more like them. These gestures may look scary but that’s what in the fans’ thoughts everyday.