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I give you accidental disappointment and you change your mind...about me...about everything. Now what do I do?

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Appreciation

I wish we were all able to show appreciation for those in our lives. The world would be so much happier and lively.

We never know what will happen next. It could be the last time you say I love you. What do you want your last moment to be?

Never enough

I just want to be enough. Enough for you. Enough for me. Enough for us.

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“To whoever loves me next, I’m sorry if I’m afraid of you or if days of flirting turn to radio silence, without warning. I’m sorry if I make you say the words over and over and over until I believe them. (I’m sorry if I don’t believe them.) I will probably spend more time worrying about losing you than I spend trying to keep you. Trouble is, every single time I’ve ever thought something was too good to be true– I’ve been right. Understand, I will know how to be vulnerable with you, but I won’t know how not to regret it. And I have no idea how deep we’ll be into this relationship before I admit I’ve never done this before. Not really. Not in any way that counts. Before I admit that I know how to put my body inside someone else’s but not how to make it beautiful. I probably won’t be easy to love. Too many people loved me badly, I’m not sure I know how to do it right.”

— Ashe Vernon

Enough

When will I be enough for you? All I want is to be enough. To be the person you need me to be. To be someone you can love forever. Someone you can call your wife. Your angel. Your one and only. I wish I could be that person. All I want is to be that person. I just want to be enough. For you. But most importantly, for myself.

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“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you.”

— Haruki Murakami (via minuty)

Possibilities

Can I do this? Can I be okay with drinking and smoking? Can I dissociate it from my parents?

Do I need to just leave? Never look back, create real change for myself and become better.

There’s so much to learn from so many people- I just want to be better. I want to find my happiness in myself, not in others. People let you down, people will always let you down. There’s nothing you can do; you can’t control them.

Can I just be happy with him and not worry about the future? Because it doesn’t matter, it will be or it won’t be. Put in effort now and if he doesn’t follow through, then it wasn’t meant to be. If I try and try and realize I can’t be okay with it, then I need to make a conscious decision for myself and want better.

If he doesn’t love you, then oh well. His loss. Not everyone can love you, only the people that try and care will. Only the people worth while will stay and love you. Then you know what’s real or not. Loss allows you to feel and experience first hand what is meant to be.

JUST LET IT HAPPEN. CHANGE WHAT YOU CAN. ACCEPT WHAT YOU CANNOT. JUST LOVE.

Growth

We all make mistakes, but can we learn from them? How many times should we make the same mistake? How many times can we be blinded by our love until we realize nothing will change? Or until we realize change needs to be made.

He told me change needs to be made. I agree, and I know part of it is me. I make him feel like shit. He makes me feel like shit. Maybe I need to realize we aren’t good for eachother anymore. Or maybe I need to realize we can be good for eachother if we would just try. Maybe we just need to try.

Good, bad, it’s all the same

I just wanted you to stay. Stay for the good. Stay for the bad. Stay because you loved me. Because you told me you wanted to marry me. Stay because I need you, but not because you feel like you have to. Stay because you want to.

-me wishing you loved me for me

Change

At what point is changing yourself to become better for the other person or yourself? Is compromising your beliefs growing? Or are they right and it’s no compromise at all because you aren’t a good person and have misled beliefs. Or is this just you believing them and not trusting in yourself that you are doing the best that you can.

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It’s just me missing you.

wnq-anonymous

I still get very high and very low in life. Daily. But I’ve finally accepted the fact that sensitive is just how I was made, that I don’t have to hide it and I don’t have to fix it. I’m not broken.

Glennon Doyle Melton (via wnq-anonymous)

wnq-anonymous

In the end. we all just want someone that chooses us. Over everyone else. Under any circumstances.

Anonymous (via wnq-anonymous)

Be happy

I always want to be okay, to be happy, to get to the place where I am happy. I forget that I can be happy in the unhappy moments that consume my life, simply because of my perspective. You can only change you, make yourself happy. Be happy with the unhappiness. It is all okay.

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how do you fall out of love with someone?

You fall out of love with someone slowly, much more slowly than you fell in love with them. Falling out of love comes in stages.

You feel every emotion in one; heartbreak, rejection, confusion, nostalgia, wistfulness, anguish. You feel broken. You will want to hang on to something, even thought deep down you know that there is nothing left to hold on to. You overthink for a while, and then you finally accept that you weren’t right for each other.

You spend some time apart, and you begin to see the light again. You start to stop thinking about them constantly, and the echo of their haunting voice in your mind dissipates. Their eyes, their smile, you start to forget them. But a part of them is still with you.

You learn how to live life without them again. You start to remember who you were before them, and you will accept that you have changed after them. You will see that you are a new person. You will pick up the pieces that were left broken on the floor. You will mend yourself.

You will realise that you’re perfectly fine on your own, and you are happy. You will be whole again. You will realise that you are all you need.

I hope you’re doing okay, love.

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Self destruction is all I have

left. / @oliver-swinford (via teacup13)

Lucky

I feel lucky enough to have lasted this long without such a feeling. The feeling of only being loved for your body. Who knew it was such a feeling? We make the feeling exist, and only we can make it dissapear. Or the person that makes us feel that way. The question is...Do we change the situation? Or how we look at the situation?

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