Dearest Tolaas Mun,
It wonât let me tag you, but Iâll put your url here anyway. nytehavyn-circle (http://nytehavyn-circle.tumblr.com) you have been making a dear friend of mine dread coming online for quite some time. She blocked you so you couldnât guilt trip her into giving you hand outs. She had to block you. That says a lot right there. Because this woman is a fucking sweetheart and doesnât block ANYONE UNLESS ITS SERIOUSLY TRIGGERING HER ANXIETY.
So, first she started out just saying âIâm sorry, but I donât have any extra cash I can give you.â (Or something along those lines. Donât quote me on it.) then from there, your incessant begging continued. Trust me, I know how hard it is to live with anxiety and depression. I do it every fucking day. But you know what? You have to learn to cope with it and make yourself better. And then you can go into the workforce and make your own money.
See, I donât have a problem with people asking for help if they desperately need it. But all I used to see from you when I followed you was âI need money for ________ please give me someâ (again, donât quote me on it.) and then when people would ignore that, youâd post things like âwell, guess I should just go. This is goodbye.â (Donât quote me on this either.) I didnât see you asking for help in the way of resources to help yourself. You only ever ask others to help you financially, and even though you might not anymore, itâs what caused me to unfollow you. I donât tolerate people just begging for handouts without trying to help themselves first. Theres plenty of resources in the U.S. Iâve had to utilize them myself. Itâs not that hard to come by if you do it right.
Now, back to my friend. I donât know who told her, but it had to be a mutual follow between you two. But the shit talking needs to stop. This isnât the first time sheâs come to me, highly upset because someone is talking shit about her for no good reason other than âoh, she unfollowed me and blocked me and wonât give me money boohoo.â Thereâs no reason to shit talk at all. She wouldnât have unfollowed you and blocked you if you hadnât kept begging her for money and guilt tripping her into giving it to you. Go ahead and call me a bitch, but Iâm telling the truth. The way you treat your partners as piggy banks is shit. Go ahead, report me, block me, do whatever you want to fucking do, because Iâm sick of people walking all over my friends. If youâd like to âset the record straightâ per se, my ask box is always open. Just know my replies will all be made public. And any fan mail I get sent from you will also be made public via screencaps.
(Dis)Respectfully yours,
Jojo (pride-of-the-Irish mun)













