Cause Sometimes You Just Gotta Get It Out

GA: Sorry This Has Been In Our Box Of Asks For So LongGA: This Has Most Likely Been Resolved But Perhaps I Will Assist AnywayGA: After All It Is In My Nature

GA: From What I Can Tell The Poly Relationship Is Completely Separate From The Crush On The Aro Ace Friend Assuming That You Are Poly Yourself Of CourseGA: If That Is The Case Then You Should Not Ignore The Crush But You Should Not Necessarily Act On ItGA: I Guess What Im Saying IsGA: If Youre Going To Have The Crush Youre Going To Have The CrushGA: You Cant Do Much But Wait For It To Go Away In My Admittedly Limited Experience With Matters Such As This OneGA: But Dont Let It Take Away From Your Other Relationship Of CourseGA: Dont Get Too Hung Up On Your Crush Outside The Relationship That Your Partners Feel Alienated Or Anything Of The SortGA: (Look Im An Alien And I Just Used The Word Alienated)

GA: Oh Boy Can I Tell You About Separation AnxietyGA: My Entire Experience With The Concept Can Be Summarized By Two Words And Those Words Are Vriska SerketGA: Who Often Used To Disappear For Months At A Time With Little Regard For Her FriendsGA: Particularly Those With Whom She Had More Of A Pale RelationshipGA: You Are Not In Quite The Same Situation And Hopefully Your Friend Treats You Better Than I Have Come To Realize Vriska Once Treated Me

GA: Regardless Of My Own Personal Issues Which Have At Any Rate Largely Been ResolvedGA: I Suggest You Tell Your Friend About Your Emotions Regarding Their DistanceGA: Also If You Have Anything Of Theirs Or That Reminds You Of Them You Might Find It Comforting To Keep It Near You And Look At It OftenGA: Its Often Nice To Remind Yourself That Your Friend At Least Still Exists Somewhere Even If That Somewhere Isnt With YouGA: Consistent With This You Should Communicate With Them As Much As Possible If You Arent Already But I Assume You Are AlreadyGA: Also Remind Yourself That They Will Return EventuallyGA: If You Are Looking Forward To A Good Time It Will Be Easier To Go Through A Bad Time

GA: As Far As Not Eating And Being Sick And Having NightmaresGA: Remind Yourself That You AreGA: TechnicallyGA: OkayGA: And That You Will Continue LivingGA: Even If Sometimes The Only Words In Your Head Are “Im Okay Im Okay Im Okay”GA: Eat Only A Little At A Time Until You Are Confident In Your Food Carrying CapacityGA: Perhaps You Can Listen To Soothing Music As You Go To SleepGA: In Fact Soothing Music Is A Generally Good Strategy So You Should Absolutely Listen To Soothing Music As Much As PossibleGA: Whatever You Consider Soothing That Is Since I Know Certain People And Trolls Who Do Not Listen To Music That I Consider Soothing And Still Somehow Manage To Be SoothedGA: *Cough* Dave Vriska Porrim Terezi Et Cetera *Cough*

GA: Ask Your Parents About The Online IdeaGA: They Might Not Let You But They Also MightGA: If That Doesnt Work Then The Next Time You Go To A Psychologist Bring Something Upon Which You Can Inscribe Words Rather Than Speaking Them Out LoudGA: It Will Likely Be Easier For You Since You Described Your Discomfort As Being With Talking Out Loud To PeopleGA: Also Ask If You Can Choose The Psychologist In QuestionGA: Online Or NotGA: Hopefully That Will Allow You To Be More In Control Of The Situation

GA: Good Luck In This And All Other Endeavors

GA: Youre Not A Lost CauseGA: If You Believe You Are Developing DID You Are Most Likely CorrectGA: Seeing As It Is Your Brain And AllGA: See If You Can Convince Your Mother To Allow You To Visit Some Sort Of Think Pan DoctorGA: Rose Tells Me Theyre Called PsychologistsGA: You May Have To Fabricate A Different Reason To Go If Necessary Such As Anxiety Or Something Of The Sort Since That Is As Far As I Know A More Accepted ReasonGA: But You Are Not A Lost Cause And I Believe In Your Capacity To Keep Going Strong Through Everything

(continued message): 2) a) stop listening and tell me to get out. b) start yelling or c) hit me and then yell at me to get out. I try bur at this point I'm terrified of speaking to them for fear of being taken the wrong way. School was an outlet but now that it's summer

 GG: do i need to kidnap you????

GG: no offense but your parents sound really mean :(

GG: i know this seems super drastic but what if you got someone else involved.... police is a bit too drastic of a measure though! (unless them hitting you is what you define as physical abuse) try an aunt, uncle, or even grandparents

GG: the point is to get an adult involved since most adults dont want to listen to kids :\

GG: WOAH WOAH WOAH

GG: whats the deal with your parents making you a shut in

GG: not cool!!! >:(

GG: you gotta talk to your parents if you ever wanna breathe some fresh air

GG: i know it may be scary to stand up to your parents.... but you do what you gotta do

 GG: its important to also not drop the subject too... but be careful and not irritate your parents

:33 < Your best friend should respect your wishes when you say that you want to remain furiends with your ex!

:33 < And if fur some reason she doesn’t, then purrhaps it’s time to examine your furiendship with her and s33 if it’s really one you wish to continue.

:33 < Overall, it’s impurtant to talk with your best friend and s33 if she has a good reason fur disliking the relationship you have with your ex.

:33 < Take it furom someone who people thought was being treated purrly by their best friend (even though Equihiss is a total sw33tie!). 

GA: I Have Thought Through The Possible Answers Here And Honestly The Best One Is Probably To Break Up With HerGA: She Is Currently Toxic To You In A Figurative Sense And You Should Not Be Dating A Toxic PersonGA: I Know How Hard It Is To Cut Ties With A Person You Like Even If They Are Ultimately Detrimental To Your HappinessGA: However It Is In Some Cases Necessary And It Is Certainly In This Case NecessaryGA: Possibly Make Another Attempt At Talking To Her But If It Doesnt Work Then Tell Her You Are Not Going To Date Her AnymoreGA: This Conversation Will Be Difficult And She Will Probably Try To Convince You To Continue In A Relationship With Her But Hold Your GroundGA: She Will Also Try To Make Herself The Victim Again But RememberGA: Although She Does Not Want You To LeaveGA: You Are The One Who Felt The Need ToGA: And That Means That She Is Most Likely Not The Victim In This Particular Situation

GA: Its Likely That She Doesnt Understand Your Particular GenderGA: Of Course I Cannot Be One Hundred Percent Certain Of This But It Sounds Like You Are Non BinaryGA: Whereas She Is BinaryGA: Which May Lead To Misunderstanding On Her Part Due To The Arbitrary Gender Binary That Both Humans And Trolls Somehow Managed To Come Up With And Then Force Upon All Members Of Those Respective SpeciesGA: Unfortunately Many Members Of Both Species Are Still Used To ThatGA: And Change Is Resisted By Nearly All

GA: Thank You Very MuchGA: Congratulations On All The Things You Mentioned Regarding Your Gender And Mental HealthGA: Im Glad That We Were Able To Help You And Also That You Were Able To Help Yourself

GA: You Should Definitely Go For ItGA: Something That I Have Noticed About Both Myself And Other Beings In Many Species Is A Propensity For Underestimating OneselfGA: You May Consider Yourself To Be Many Negative ThingsGA: But A Lot Of Others May Consider You Not To Be Those ThingsGA: Also GA: Assuming You Are A Human On A Version Of Earth Which Has Not Been Destroyed (An Assumption Which I Have Made Based On Your Use Of The Word 'People')GA: There Are Many Humans On Your EarthGA: Surely Not All Of Them Think The Same Things Of YouGA: The Only Way To Know Which Ones Think Good Things Is To Talk To Them

GA: Also Keep With Your ArtGA: However Good Or Bad You Are At ItGA: You Can Only Get Better After AllGA: And Chances Are Youre Already Relatively Proficient In Forming Aesthetically Pleasing Shapes Or Whatever Your Particular Form Of Art EntailsGA: So If You Get Better You Will Be Even More Proficient And It Will Be An Even Bigger Asset For You